‘RHOC’ star Tamra Judge hits out at ‘onslaught’ of negativity after she shared she ‘was on the spectrum’

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: 'RHOC' star Tamra Judge recently addressed online backlash following her revelation that she was on an autism spectrum disorder. In a lengthy Instagram post on Tuesday, October 15, she explained her decision to share her recent diagnosis. 

This announcement came after she joined a podcast where she tearfully disclosed that she had made this revelation during her first therapy session. While many fans praised her for openly discussing her personal journey, she also faced criticism for her candidness.

Tamra Judge experienced 'intrusive thoughts' after starting therapy

On her official account, Tamra Judge started her post by sharing her feelings after discovering that she is on the spectrum, "I started therapy because this year had been really hard on me. I started feeling really insecure, I was having intrusive thoughts, and I didn’t wanna leave my house unless I had to. I even considered just being admitted into a mental health facility." 

She then added, "And she told me that many of the things about me — like how I process information, my sensory issues, my social anxiety, my aversion to eye contact with new people, my not wanting to be out of my routine, etc. — were all signs of being on the spectrum. Now, ‘On the spectrum,’ it’s such a broad term. I don’t really understand it fully, and my therapist told me more evaluation was needed."

She added, “But when I sat down at the mic to record my podcast 15 minutes later  and my head was spinning from what she had said. I had no time to process things, or even talk to my family — I was just back at work. And I was so emotional, I just blurted it out.”

Tamra Judge says she didn't want to appear 'weak'

The 'RHOC' star then explained how negative comments have influenced her throughout her life and the impact they have had on her experiences, “Afterwards, my instinct was to have it removed. But I’m used to being so open with everything in my life, I thought against it. Now, I wish I had. I just want to take people through the journey with me as I’ve always done, but I realize now I spoke too soon publicly, and that processing this with such an onslaught of negative comments has been horrible.”

She also expressed her desire to be there for others, “If you know me, you know I don’t like to look weak or play the victim. I also hate labels, just as much as I hate excuses. But I’m working on myself — not a TV show; to be a better person for me and the people around me. This isn’t some storyline. It’s my real life. I have past trauma that is deep and painful. This is something I’ve suppressed for 15 years. But I’m finally getting the help I need, and I’m proud of myself for that.”

“So as much as I appreciate the amazing people who reached out, I think it’s best to move forward more privately until I get to a better mental space. My mental health is just not strong enough where I can be judged and hated on right now. Yes, I’m admitting I’m weak. And I’m okay with that right now,” she concluded. 

Internet calls Tamra Judge 'brave'

After Tamra Judge addressed the backlash after revealing she was on the spectrum, many internet users took to social media and praised her for being "brave" about it.

One user said, "I firmly believe that the moment you start talking about it, it gets easier - it is the first (and potentially most important) step! I watch you on TV for pure escapism, which ironically betters my mental health in a sense, and those of us who love you will support you as you prioritize yours- life is full circle that way! 🤍🤍🤍." 

The second user said, "It was so brave of you to open up about this! ❤️." The third user wrote, "SO PROUD OF YOU ❤️."

"Love you ❤️ You’re not weak, you’re working through trauma and that makes you strong 💪🏼" a user added. 

A netizen added, “I’m so sorry ☹️ I was worried the internet trolls would be harsh in response. So many people love and support you and are rooting for you! I would unplug from social media as much as possible until RHOC is done airing. I definitely couldn’t deal with all this hate. You’re doing the work which is more than most of the trolls can say! ❤️”

A fan added, “Sending love, prayers, and strength to you! ✝️🙏🏻🫶”

The last user wrote, "It was so brave of you to open up about this! ❤️"

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