Viral video of Kathy Bates’ emotional healing ‘in real time’ after 33 years of guilt touches hearts

Kathy Bates expressed guilt believing she had forgotten to thank her mother during her 1991 Oscar acceptance speech
UPDATED OCT 8, 2024
Kathy Bates gets emotional after finding out she had indeed thanked her mother during her 1991 Oscar speech (CBS /TikTok)
Kathy Bates gets emotional after finding out she had indeed thanked her mother during her 1991 Oscar speech (CBS /TikTok)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: A heartwarming moment unfolded when actress Kathy Bates experienced unexpected relief during a recent interview on CBS' 'Sunday Morning', as reported by Buzzfeed.

The 76-year-old 'Matlock' star had been burdened under the weight of a guilt for over 30 years.

The actress believed all these years that she had forgotten to thank her mother during her 1991 Oscar acceptance speech for 'Misery'. However, journalist Ben Mankiewicz gently corrected her, showing video evidence that Bates had, in fact, not forgotten to do so.

American actress Kathy Bates, American film director Rob Reiner, and American actor James Caan attend the Westwood premiere of 'Misery' held at the Mann Village Theater in Los Angeles, California, 29th November 1990. Bates' mother, Bertye Bates (1907-1997), is at the extreme left of the frame. (Photo by Vinnie Zuffante/Getty Images)
 Kathy Bates with her mother Bertye Kathleen Talbot, film director Rob Reiner, and James Caan attend the Westwood premiere of 'Misery' held at the Mann Village Theater in Los Angeles, California, on  November 29, 1990 (Vinnie Zuffante/Getty Images)

Kathy Bates in tears on realizing she hadn't forgotten her mother in Oscar speech



 

Kathy Bates, who won the Best Actress Academy Award for 'Misery' in 1991, recalled she "forgot to thank" her mother, Bertye Kathleen Talbot, in her acceptance speech. Her mother died in 1997.

But Ben Mankiewicz reminded her, "You know, you did thank her at the end of your speech, You thanked her."

"No, I did not," Bates replied. "I did not. You go back and look at it. I didn't."

But when Mankiewicz pulled up the footage, the actress was visibly moved after seeing herself say, "I’d like to thank my family, my friends, my mom at home, my dad — who I hope is watching somewhere.”

“Thank you," Bates said, getting emotional. "Why did I think I didn't thank her? Oh, what a relief.”

Kathy Bates arrives at the Fall Schedule Celebration at Paramount Studios on May 02, 2024 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Steve Granitz/FilmMagic)
Kathy Bates turned emotional during an interview on CBS' 'Sunday Morning' (Steve Granitz/FilmMagic)

Kathy was visibly emotional as she watched the footage. Her eyes widened in surprise, and she covered her mouth in shock, realizing that she hadn’t forgotten to mention her mother after all.

“Why does that mean so much to you?” Mankiewicz asked. 

Bates then reflected on her mother’s sacrifices and support throughout her acting career.

"She should have had my life," Bates shared, mentioning how much it meant to her to know she had acknowledged her mother during such a significant moment in her career.

Bates also recalled her mother's underwhelmed reaction to her Oscar win.

"When I won the Oscar for 'Misery', she said, 'I don't know what all the excitement is about. You didn't discover the cure for cancer'," said Bates.

American actress Kathy Bates in the press room of the 63rd Academy Awards, held at the Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles, California, 25th March 1991. Bates is holding her Best Actress award, won for her performance as Annie Wilkes in 'Misery'. (Photo by Vinnie Zuffante/Getty Images)
 Kathy Bates holding her Best Actress award for her performance as Annie Wilkes in 'Misery' at the 63rd Academy Awards, held at the Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles, California, on March 25, 1991 (Vinnie Zuffante/Getty Images)

Kathy Bates’ emotional video strikes a chord with fans

Kathy Bates turning emotional during a recent interview after finding out she had not forgotten to thank her mother during her 1991 Oscar acceptance speech struck a deep chord with fans and viewers alike, prompting heartfelt reactions across social media.

One user articulated the profound empathy involved in Kathy Bates’ journey, stating, "The amount of empathy you have to have to see through your mother’s bitterness towards you and realize it's not your fault but, in fact, her own regrets/anger that she’s carried for decades."



 

Another user expressed admiration for Bates, saying, "Oh Kathy, the WOMAN YOU ARE!!"



 

An individual wrote, "That really touches my heart. I love Kathy so much. So beautiful and moving."



 

One comment read, "This reaction here was genuine. Even though I’m used to her acting her a** off, she was no acting here. We watched a burden be released from someone in real time."



 

Another user stated, "I don’t exist, but my mom gets to live, not just survive. Our parents really sacrificed so much for us.”



 

One user simply stated, "I adore her."



 

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