Benny Blanco recalls his mom saying 'you should marry Selena Gomez' years before they dated

Benny Blanco recalled his mother urging him to marry Selena Gomez in 2019, saying he always thought the singer was 'so cool'
Selena Gomez called marriage to Benny Blanco 'a dream,' and the couple later celebrated with a relaxed honeymoon road trip (Emma McIntyre/Getty Images)
Selena Gomez called marriage to Benny Blanco 'a dream,' and the couple later celebrated with a relaxed honeymoon road trip (Emma McIntyre/Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Benny Blanco made a surprising revelation about his mother, Sandra Levin, during the Tuesday, June 23, episode of his podcast, ‘Friends Keep Secrets’.

The record producer, born Benjamin Joseph Levin, revealed that years before he even started dating Selena Gomez, his mother urged him to marry the ‘Only Murders in the Building’ star.

Record producer Benny Blanco (L) and actor Selena Gomez (R) attend the game between the New York Knicks and the Philadelphia 76ers in Game Two of the Eastern Conference First Round Playoffs at Madison Square Garden on April 22, 2024 in New York City. NOTE TO USER: User expressly acknowledges and agrees that, by downloading and or using this photograph, User is consenting to the terms and conditions of the Getty Images License Agreement. (Photo by Sarah Stier/Getty Images)
Record producer Benny Blanco and actor Selena Gomez attend the game between the New York Knicks and the Philadelphia 76ers in Game Two of the Eastern Conference First Round Playoffs at Madison Square Garden on April 22, 2024 in New York City (Sarah Stier/Getty Images)

Benny Blanco mom told him to date 'someone like Selena'

Blanco reportedly said, “2019, I’m shooting a video with Selena. I’m dating someone else, ok?. My mom’s on the video shoot and she says, she’s just sitting there, she’s like, ‘Hon, you should marry Selena.’”

“And I was like, ‘What?’ And she was like, ‘You should be dating someone like Selena.’ And there were like two times in my life where I left a specific session or late video with her where I was like, 'Wow, she’s so cool. She’s like really cool,’” the 38-year-old added.

Benny Blanco always thought Selena Gomez was 'so cool'

Blanco further shared that although he and Gomez were friendly, they weren't “best friends,” and he always thought she was “so cool.”

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - OCTOBER 18: (L-R) Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco attend the 5th Annual Academy Museum Gala at the Academy Museum of Motion Pictures on October 18, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by John Shearer/FilmMagic)
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco attend the 5th Annual Academy Museum Gala at the Academy Museum of Motion Pictures on October 18, 2025 in Los Angeles, California (John Shearer/FilmMagic)

Elsewhere during the podcast, the recipient of the 2013 Hal David Starlight Award from the Songwriters Hall of Fame recalled a conversation with one of his exes, who told him, “I was texting with her one time and she said, ‘You know, it’s so great you guys got married. I remember you talking so positively about Selena even when we were together.’ Just as like a friendly thing.”

Benny Blanco calls Selena Gomez her 'best friend'

One of the guests on Blanco’s podcast, Aaron Paul, asked him if his mother had “planted the seed” for his marriage to the Rare Beauty founder. 

He replied, “My mom planted the seed. She was like, ‘She’s got her head on her shoulders.’ She was like, ‘She’s so sweet, she’s this and that.’”

“Everyone says you always marry your best friend. That’s how it works. And she’s my best friend,” he added.

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco attend the 97th Annual Oscars at Dolby Theatre on March 02, 2025 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by John Shearer/97th Oscars/The Academy via Getty Images)
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco attend the 97th Annual Oscars at Dolby Theatre on March 02, 2025 in Hollywood, California (John Shearer/97th Oscars/The Academy via Getty Images)

This came months after Gomez opened up about her marriage to Blanco. She reportedly said, “It’s been just a dream so far. And I know it’ll come with ebbs and flows, but [he’s] the most beautiful person I could do that with.”

After the wedding, the two stars went on a “little honeymoon” road trip.

“They celebrated for days during their wedding and were on such a high. They really enjoyed slowing down, going on a road trip to explore and relax. They drove up the Cali coast and also visited Texas,” a source claimed.

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