Charlie Kirk’s security chief backs Erika amid conspiracy theories: 'I know what pain looks like'

Brian Harpole said the bullet shattered Kirk’s vertebra when he was fatally shot at a Utah event
PUBLISHED NOV 19, 2025
Brian Harpole addressed the rumors surrounding Erika Kirk after her husband’s death, describing what he saw and how Erika reacted (@CollinRugg/X)
Brian Harpole addressed the rumors surrounding Erika Kirk after her husband’s death, describing what he saw and how Erika reacted (@CollinRugg/X)

NASHVILLE, TENNESSEE: Conservative activist  Charlie Kirk was shot and killed in September 2025. His death immediately sparked widespread speculation, rumors, and conspiracy theories, including claims suggesting his wife Erika Kirk’s involvement.

Now, Kirk's head of security, Brian Harpole, has come forward to address these allegations and defend Erika. “I know what pain looks and sounds like,” Harpole said, describing the family’s grief. He added, "You don’t want to hear that.”

Erika Kirk speaks during the memorial service for her husband, political activist Charlie Kirk at State Farm Stadium on September 21, 2025 in Glendale, Arizona. Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of Turning Point USA, was shot and killed on September 10th while speaking at an event during his
Erika Kirk speaks during the memorial service for her husband, political activist Charlie Kirk at State Farm Stadium on September 21, 2025 in Glendale, Arizona. Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of Turning Point USA, was shot and killed on September 10th while speaking at an event during his "American Comeback Tour" at Utah Valley University (Win McNamee/Getty Images)

Brian Harpole condemns rumors about Erika Kirk’s involvement in Charlie Kirk’s death

Brian Harpole, Charlie Kirk’s head of security, spoke out about Kirk’s death and talked about Erika's conspiracy theory about her involvement (@CollinRugg/X)
Brian Harpole, Charlie Kirk’s head of security, spoke out about Kirk’s death and talked about Erika's conspiracy theory about her involvement (@CollinRugg/X)

Brian Harpole addressed the swirling conspiracy theories about Kirk’s death. Reflecting on the family’s grief, he added, “I know what pain looks and sounds like... The words that came out of (Erika's) mouth and how they came out when she walked in that room and saw him, you don't want to hear that.”

“She's a victim; that's her husband. How people without any proof are saying she's responsible, that's what makes me lose faith," he added. 

He elaborated on the extent of the injury, “Hit the vertebra, crushed it, shattered it, turned, crushed the second one... kept going down all the way, I think they said C6.”  He also shared details from the medical explanation about the fatal gunshot. Harpole said, “The doctor told us... the bullet came in and hit the vertebra. So it came in and then tore up everything in the wound cavity...”

Conspiracy theories target Erika Kirk following Charlie Kirk’s death in Utah

Charlie Kirk speaks at Utah Valley University on September 10, 2025 in Orem, Utah. Kirk, founder of Turning Point USA, was speaking at his
Charlie Kirk speaks at Utah Valley University on September 10, 2025 in Orem, Utah. Kirk, founder of Turning Point USA, was speaking at his "American Comeback Tour" when he was shot in the neck and killed (Trent Nelson/The Salt Lake Tribune/Getty Images)

The newest conspiracy theory centers on an alleged $350,000 transfer to Erika Kirk, Charlie’s widow and current TPUSA CEO, in the weeks before his death. Some have suggested the payment might be linked to Kirk’s killing.

The claims were shared by a Facebook page, Together We Rise, and spread like wildfire across social media. The same page stated that the company supposedly responsible for the transfer disappeared just four days after Kirk was shot.

Additionally, users claim a video surfaced showing Erika Kirk meeting privately with two unidentified individuals less than 48 hours after the incident.

The rumors may be spreading online, but there’s no confirmation of the claims, and neither Erika nor Donald Trump has commented regarding the conspiracy theory.

Meanwhile, other conspiracy theories about Kirk’s death - including questions about where he is actually buried have continued to circulate.

GLENDALE, ARIZONA - SEPTEMBER 21: Mrs. Erika Kirk joins U.S. President Donald Trump onstage during the memorial service for political activist Charlie Kirk at State Farm Stadium on September 21, 2025 in Glendale, Arizona. Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of Turning Point USA, was shot and killed on September 10th while speaking at an event during his
Erika Kirk joins US President Donald Trump onstage during the memorial service for political activist Charlie Kirk at State Farm Stadium on September 21, 2025 in Glendale, Arizona. Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of Turning Point USA, was shot and killed on September 10 while speaking at an event during his "American Comeback Tour" at Utah Valley University (Joe Raedle/Getty Images)

Despite the criticism, Erika has remained vocal in her admiration for her late husband. She has stepped up to lead TPUSA and has pledged to continue guiding the organization.

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