Erika Kirk fires back at Joy Reid’s remarks over her hug with JD Vance

The clash came after Joy Reid criticized Erika Kirk’s friendship with JD Vance during her late husband’s memorial earlier this year
PUBLISHED DEC 19, 2025
Erika Kirk slammed Joy Reid during her speech Thursday at the Turning Point USA summit (@mrserikakirk/Instagram, Getty Images)
Erika Kirk slammed Joy Reid during her speech Thursday at the Turning Point USA summit (@mrserikakirk/Instagram, Getty Images)


PHOENIX, ARIZONA: Erika Kirk, widow of Charlie Kirk, fired back at former MSNBC host Joy Reid with a pointed, sarcastic remark during her Thursday (December 18) speech at the Turning Point USA summit.

The clash came after Reid and co-host Jennifer Welch criticized Erika on the 'I’ve Had It podcast' for her friendship with JD Vance, which was highlighted when Erika hugged Vance at her late husband Charlie Kirk’s memorial. Reid also took aim at Erika’s outfit during the service.

Erika Kirk makes a sarcastic offer to Joy Reid

Erika Kirk, 37, took the stage and aimed a pointed, sarcastic remark at Joy Reid. “Joy Reid probably needs a really, really good hug, and honestly, I’m here for it if she needs it,” she said. "I’ve got a good hug for you. I will even touch the back of your head.”

Her comment drew loud applause from attendees at the conservative organization’s conference.

For context,  in October 2025, she attended a memorial for him at the Pavilion at Ole Miss on the University of Mississippi campus, alongside JD Vance. For the event, she wore a white T-shirt with “Freedom” printed on it and paired it with black leather pants, while Vance wore a sharp blue suit.

OXFORD, MISSISSIPPI - OCTOBER 29: Erika Kirk and U.S. Vice President JD Vance embrace at the Pavilion at Ole Miss on the campus of the University of Mississippi on October 29, 2025 in Oxford, Mississippi. Thousands attended the Turning Point USA event to honor Kirk's husband, the late conservative activist Charlie Kirk. (Photo by Brad Vest/Getty Images)
Erika Kirk and US Vice President JD Vance embrace at the Pavilion at Ole Miss on the campus of the University of Mississippi on October 29, 2025 in Oxford, Mississippi (Brad Vest/Getty Images)

When JD Vance stepped onto the stage, Erika embraced him in a hug that quickly went viral and sparked mixed reactions online. She later addressed the moment publicly, explaining that she is a deeply affectionate person and that intense hugs are part of her love language. She shared a detailed, emotional account of the encounter with the audience.

"My love language is touch, if you will. They just played the emotional video. I'm walking over, he's walking over. I'm starting to cry. He says, 'I'm so proud of you.' And I say, 'God bless you,' and I touch the back of his head."

She added, “A person that hates a hug is in need of a hug… I will give you a free hug anytime, ​‍​‌‍​‍‌​‍​‌‍​‍‌anywhere.”



Joy Reid calls out Erika Kirk after her viral hug with JD Vance



Joy Reid suggested that Vice President JD Vance might leave his wife, Usha Vance, for “White queen” Erika Kirk. Reid commented, “They can't have the successor to MAGA be the guy with the Brown Hindu wife. They're also Christian nationalists. That ain't going to work. That's why he's throwing his wife under the bus. Poor Usha. Or she's in on it."

Reid added, “Playing slap and tickle with Erika Kirk, it's the weirdest s**t I've ever seen.” Co-host Jennifer Welch chimed in, saying, “I’ve had it. She's like in her Tammy Faye era.”

Reid continued with criticism of Erika’s behavior, noting, “Holding on the back of his head and rubbing on his head… You’re not doing the right thing. [You're] supposed to be a widow; you in leather pants? That's not widow wear.”

She went on, “Wouldn't it be the most perfect fairy tale, MAGA fairy tale, if he finally sees the light that he needs a White queen instead of this Brown Hindu? I mean,I mean, I'm not saying that's happening, or maybe that Usha is not even in on it."

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