Erika Kirk says ‘everyone has a responsibility’ to cool heated political rhetoric
NEW YORK CITY, NEW YORK: Erika Kirk said “everyone has a responsibility” to help lower the heated political climate in the country, months after her husband was killed.
In an interview released on Saturday, December 13, Charlie Kirk's widow addressed questions during a CBS News-hosted town hall moderated by editor-in-chief Bari Weiss.
Weiss pressed Kirk on whether leaders in Washington bear responsibility for calming things down.
“Well, I think everyone has a responsibility to do that and I’m doing my part,” Erika said. “I’m not in control of other people.”
Erika Kirk responds to question of student who last spoke with Charlie Kirk
The question Weiss reiterated originally came from Hunter Kozak, an undergraduate student at Utah Valley University. He was the same student who had asked Charlie a question moments before he was shot in September.
Kozak raised concerns about political violence before turning his attention to President Donald Trump. He referenced Trump’s claim last month that six Democratic lawmakers committed treason for urging US service members to ignore unlawful orders. Trump accused the lawmakers on Truth Social of “seditious behavior” and later added that it was “punishable by death.”
“Will you condemn the violent rhetoric of Donald Trump, the most powerful and influential person on Earth?” Kozak asked.
Erika did not single out Trump in her response. She said the problem runs far deeper.
“This starts at the home, OK?” she said. “This starts with the family. This starts with a seed that grows and grows. You can choose to have evil in our heart or you can choose to have light. What you consume and what you absorb from the outside world will manifest itself.”
She made clear that she rejects violence outright.
“No, I will never agree with political violence,” Erika said. “My husband is a victim of it. I’m a victim of it.”
Remembering Charlie Kirk’s approach
During the town hall, Erika described her husband as someone who welcomed disagreement rather than stoking hostility.
She said Charlie actively encouraged people with different views and backgrounds to engage directly with him.
She remembered he would often say, “I'll put my mic down. Tell me why you believe that. That's interesting. I never thought of that. But have you thought of this?”
"He never once said, 'Go after them because they're saying X, Y, Z and they deserve to die.' He gave them a microphone. He didn't take away a moment for them to speak back. He gave them a microphone. And what'd they do? They gave him a bullet in the neck. Totally different," she continued.
Erika said her husband firmly believed that conversation, not confrontation, could change lives. She pointed to his new book, 'Stop, in the Name of God: Why Honoring the Sabbath Will Transform Your Life', which focuses on the idea that meaningful communication is impossible without inner peace.
Charlie Kirk's murder
Charlie Kirk, the founder of Turning Point USA, was killed on September 10 while speaking with students at Utah Valley University. He was struck in the neck and later pronounced dead at the hospital.
'American Comeback Tour' when he was shot in the neck and killed (Trent Nelson/The Salt Lake Tribune/Getty Images)
Tyler Robinson was arrested in connection with the shooting and has been charged with aggravated murder and six additional counts.
Prosecutors are seeking the death penalty in the case. Robinson made his first in-court appearance on Thursday.
During the town hall, Erika also addressed those who attempted to justify or excuse her husband’s killing.
Addressing the people justifying Charlie Kirk's murder on the basis of his beliefs, Erika Kirk said: "You're sick. He's a human being. You think he deserved that? Tell that to my 3-year-old daughter."@MrsErikaKirk sat down with @bariweiss for a CBS News Town Hall, just days… pic.twitter.com/8P31w4JQQR
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Anyone who tried to rationalize the killing is “sick," she said.
"He's a human being. You think he deserved that? Tell that to my three-year-old daughter," she added, holding back tears.