Nicole Kidman recalls being warned about marrying Tom Cruise as it could derail her career

Nicole Kidman was in her early 20s when she exchanged vows with Tom Cruise after they met in 1989 during the filming of 'Days of Thunder'
Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise were married for a decade, from 1991 to 2001 (Getty Images)
Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise were married for a decade, from 1991 to 2001 (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Nicole Kidman has recently opened up about her marriage to Tom Cruise, revealing that she was warned against it.

The ‘Babygirl’ star was married to Cruise from 1991 to 2001, and the two share two adopted children — daughter Isabella and son Connor. 

Nicole Kidman says she was 'thrust into' marriage at 22 

Actor Tom Cruise and his wife Nicole Kidman embrace each other at the Sydney premiere of
Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman pose for photographers at the Sydney premiere of 'Mission Impossible 2' May 30, 2000, at Fox Studios in Australia (Getty Images)

Kidman sat down for an interview with British Vogue, where she revealed why it is very important to remember whom you are marrying at a young age. The actress was in her early 20s when she exchanged vows with the ‘Top Gun’ star after they met in 1989 during the filming of ‘Days of Thunder’.

“You have to remember literally, because of who I married at such a young age, I was thrust into it since I was 22… [My life has been] more time like that than not. My memory of it not being that is quite blurry, because I was really young,” she shared. 

Nicole Kidman reveals she did not pay heed to advice being given to her before marrying Tom Cruise

‘The Others’ actress further explained that she “got married so young. Suddenly I was 22, 23 years old and I had this huge movie star husband. But it just seemed completely natural.”

Nicole Kidman attends the 98th Oscars at Dolby Theatre on March 15, 2026 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Matei Horvath/FilmMagic)
Nicole Kidman attends the 98th Oscars at Dolby Theatre on March 15, 2026, in Hollywood, California (Matei Horvath/FilmMagic)

“We just fell madly in love and it was that simple. I remember people saying to me, ‘OK, well this is really going to affect your career.’ I’m like, ‘I don’t care. I’m in love. I want to be married,’” she told the publication, before adding, “And then I was his ‘wife’ and they were like, ‘See, we told you.’ I’m like, ‘So what? I wasn’t meant to marry the man I love? Of course I’ll throw my career away. I don’t care.’”

This was not the first time Kidman had talked about her marriage to Cruise. In 2013, she told Vanity Fair, “I was a child, really, when I got married. And I needed to grow up.”

Tom Cruise shared he suggested Stanley Kubrick to cast Nicole Kidman in 'Eyes Wide Shut'

The recent Vogue interview came a few months after her former husband praised her in an interview and even disclosed that it was him who suggested Kidman for the role of free-spirited Alice Harford in Stanley Kubrick’s ‘Eyes Wide Shut’.

The 64-year-old said, “I flew out to his house, and I landed in his backyard. I read the script the day before and we spent the day talking about it. I knew all of his films.” 

Honoree Tom Cruise poses onstage during the 16th Governors Awards at The Ray Dolby Ballroom on November 16, 2025 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Kevin Winter/Getty Images)
Honoree Tom Cruise poses onstage during the 16th Governors Awards at The Ray Dolby Ballroom on November 16, 2025, in Hollywood, California (Kevin Winter/Getty Images)

“Then it was basically he and I getting to know each other. And when we were doing that, I suggested Nicole play the role [of Alice]. Because, obviously, she’s a great actress,” Cruise added.

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