'AITA for feeling suspicious after not being invited to my sister's fiance's bachelor party?'
A Reddit user is questioning their assumptions about their sister's fiance after being left out of the bachelor party in Marrakech, Morocco.
The Original Poster (OP), who’s close with their sister and her fiance, found it odd that they weren’t invited, especially since they know the city is often linked to prostitution.
After casting doubt on the event’s appropriateness, the OP's sister became upset, leaving them wondering if their assumptions were unfair.
Man suspicious after not being invited to sister's fiance's bachelor party
A Reddit user, going by the name "hydecide," posted on Reddit's popular 'Am I The A**hole' (AITA) section with the title, "AITAH For telling my sister something is fishy because my future brother in law didn’t invite me to the bachelor party?"
The OP started the post by writing, "I am very close with my only sister and have met her fiance multiple times and even travelled to his home town in London to meet all of them (my family lives in the US)."
The user then explained how they unexpectedly learned that their sister’s fiance was going to Marrakech for his bachelor party. OP claimed, "Just by some odd chance I decided I wanted to visit Morocco and my sister told me her Fiance was going there for his bachelor party that I didn’t even know was happening."
The OP found it odd that they weren’t invited and expressed their concerns and said, "I thought it was odd that I wasn’t invited to this thing, she blew up with me for making the accusation because I know Marrakech is known for prostitution…"
"AITAH for assuming this?" OP asked.
The Redditor edited the post and added more context, explaining that the fiance was moving to the US, and had stayed at OP's place. The user wrote, "Let me add detail, he is moving to the US, he has spent a couple days at my place and I even let the dude use one of my cars. I also fly for free because my sister works part time at an airline so both him and I are on the free flight pass system she has."
Internet slams OP for judging his future brother-in-law
Upon hearing OP's assumption about their sister's fiance, several people labeled the Redditor as an "a**hole" for making such a judgment about their brother-in-law.
One user explained, "Honey, YTA, and every town is "known" for prostitution - because it happens on every corner of this world. You probably were not invited because he didn't think to invite you (translation: You are not his friend)."
Another person questioned, "YTA. Newsflash: BIL doesn't want you at his bachelor party, because you clearly ain't that great to be around. The fact you jump to "dude wants to f**k prostitutes" simply because you weren't invited is wild. Sounds like you might be projecting here. What exactly are your plans in Morocco?"
A person explained, "YTA. His stag do (as we call them in the UK) is for his friends. The fact that you've met him a few times doesn't make you part of his circle. It's not suspicious at all that you're not invited, and I would bet prostitutes can be found in pretty much any city on the planet. It would actually be more difficult to find a destination completely free of s*x workers."
A user commented, "That’s a stretch for sure. But usually the best man plans the trip so the BIL most likely has no say in it as it’s usually for the wedding party to attend the parties. YTA for putting that thought into your sisters head and you’ll most likely not be able to be friends with him after this if she tells him you said that."
One person mocked, "OP is angry he wasn’t invited to take part in the prostitution. YTA." The last user said, "I have no idea if YTA because I have no clue if he considers you a friend. But, once again, bachelor and bachelorette troubles seem to cause more drama than their worth."
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