'AITA for refusing to sleep in the basement to accommodate my cousins in my room during their stay?'

A teenager on Reddit revealed that his family, having recently moved to town, asked him to give up his bedroom so his younger cousins could stay in it
PUBLISHED JAN 17, 2025
A 16-year-old boy refused to sleep in the basement to make room for his younger cousins during their week-long visit (Malachite Photography/Moment)
A 16-year-old boy refused to sleep in the basement to make room for his younger cousins during their week-long visit (Malachite Photography/Moment)

A 16-year-old boy, known by the username SeaLet5248, has sparked a heated debate on Reddit after refusing to sleep in the basement to accommodate his younger cousins during their week-long stay at his family’s home.

The post, shared in the r/AmItheA*****e subreddit, has garnered attention for the teenager’s firm stance on not giving up his bedroom.

Teen refuses to sleep in basement to make room for cousins

According to the teen’s account, his relatives had recently moved to town and his family decided to host them while they settled in. However, with the house already feeling cramped due to limited space, his parents requested that he sleep in the cold, dusty basement so his two younger cousins could stay in his room.

The basement, he explained, was poorly insulated and lacked proper bedding, leaving him with a thin blanket and an uncomfortable mattress.

In his post, the teen expressed frustration, saying, "I wouldn’t want my younger cousins to go through that too but it was MY bedroom." He also asked if he could sleep in his parents’ room instead, but they declined due to the room being cluttered with items from the recent move.

Teen refuses to sleep in basement to make room for cousins (Reddit)
(Reddit)

The OP explained, "I asked if I could sleep in my parent’s room instead but as I said every room in our house is pretty small, my parents room is also filled with the different stuff they had when they moved."

"My parents got kind of pissed off at me and we had an argument," he wrote. "The situation eventually led him to stay at a friend's house for the duration of his relatives' visit. It ended up with me going over to a friend’s house and sleeping there for the entire week my relatives were there."

Reddit users rally behind teen

The teenager’s post quickly attracted attention, with some Reddit users expressing sympathy for his discomfort claiming he did a "good job."

A user said, "Sounds like you solved everything. Good job."

Reddit users rally behind teen, with many agreeing he made the right choice (Reddit)
(Reddit)

Another added, "I always thought the whole notion of giving up your bed for others is just weird anyway. I wouldn't WANT to sleep in someone else's bed."

Reddit users rally behind teen, with many agreeing he made the right choice (Reddit)
(Reddit)

A third commentator remarked, "NTA. I note your parents (who made the offer) don't forfeit their comfortable bed or suffer any inconvenience regarding their room."

Reddit users rally behind teen, with many agreeing he made the right choice (Reddit)
(Reddit)

"NTA. Heat is a basic need . If they had a heater or a heated blanket it would be different. A child shouldn’t be made to sleep where there is not adequate heat. If made too it is child abuse," said a supporter.

Reddit users rally behind teen, with many agreeing he made the right choice (Reddit)
(Reddit)

A person said, "I’m with you on this. It isn’t a big deal, though at 16 it seems like it."

Reddit users rally behind teen, with many agreeing he made the right choice (Reddit)
(Reddit)

Another added, "NTA. They should have discussed it with you first."

Reddit users rally behind teen, with many agreeing he made the right choice (Reddit)
(Reddit)

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