Funeral services held for Iowa soldiers Sgt Declan Coady and Maj Jeffrey O’Brien killed in Iran war

After the individual services concluded, both soldiers were transported to the Iowa Veterans Cemetery for burial
Funeral services were held at The Bridge and Valley Church in Des Moines for Sgt Declan Coady and Maj Jeffrey O’Brien, on  Saturday, March 21 (US Army via AP)
Funeral services were held at The Bridge and Valley Church in Des Moines for Sgt Declan Coady and Maj Jeffrey O’Brien, on Saturday, March 21 (US Army via AP)

DES MOINES, IOWA: Funeral services were held on Saturday, March 21, for two Iowa soldiers, Sgt Declan Coady and Maj Jeffrey O’Brien, who were killed during a drone attack in Kuwait on March 1. The two men were members of the Des Moines-based 103rd Sustainment Command and were among six soldiers lost in the strike.

Following a dignified transfer at Dover Air Force Base attended by President Donald Trump, the fallen soldiers returned to Iowa this past Thursday. They were honored with a miles-long vehicle procession as they were moved to their respective funeral homes.

DOVER, DELAWARE - MARCH 07: U.S. President Donald Trump, U.S. Special Envoy to the Middle East Steve Witkoff and first lady Melania Trump stand at attention as a U.S. Army carry team moves a flagged-draped transfer case containing the remains of Maj. Jeffery R. O'Brien at Dover Air Force Base March 07, 2026 in Dover, Delaware. Six soldiers from the 103rd Sustainment Command were killed in action by an Iranian drone strike on March 1 in Port Shuabia, Kuwait during
President Donald Trump, US Special Envoy to the Middle East Steve Witkoff, and first lady Melania Trump stand at attention as a US Army carry team moves a flagged-draped transfer case containing the remains of Maj. Jeffery R. O'Brien at Dover Air Force Base on March 7, 2026, in Dover, Delaware (Roberto Schmidt/Getty Images)

Funeral service for Maj Jeffrey O’Brien

The funeral for Major Jeffrey O’Brien, who died aged 45, was held at Valley Church.

Speakers remembered the Waukee resident and Iowa State University graduate as a man who placed his family above all else.

His colleague, Brandon Potter, reflected on O’Brien’s commitment to his wife, Roxane, and their three children.

This image provided by the U.S. Army shows Maj. Jeffrey R. O'Brien, 45, of Indianola, Iowa, in this May 16, 2025, photo. (U.S. Army via AP)
This image provided by the US Army shows Maj. Jeffrey R O'Brien, 45, of Indianola, Iowa, in this May 16, 2025, photo (US Army via AP)

“It’s no surprise, but his family was clearly the center of his world. You could hear it in the way he spoke about you and how he carried himself. How he prioritized you, the sense of responsibility he had, and the big smile on his face whenever he talked about what you all did on the nights and weekends,” Potter stated.

Brigadier General Charles M Causey, Deputy Chief of Chaplains, also spoke to O'Brien's character.

Community members look on during a procession for U.S. Army Reserve Maj. Jeffrey O'Brien, of Waukee, Iowa, and U.S. Army Reserve Sgt. Declan Coady, of West Des Moines, Iowa, who both died when a drone hit a command center in Port Shuaiba, Kuwait, during the Iran Israel U.S. war, in Des Moines, Iowa, Thursday, March 19, 2026. (AP Photo/Charlie Neibergall)
Community members look on during a procession for U.S. Army Reserve Maj. Jeffrey O'Brien, of Waukee, Iowa, and U.S. Army Reserve Sgt. Declan Coady, of West Des Moines, Iowa, who died when a drone hit a command center in Port Shuaiba, Kuwait, during the Iran-Israel-U.S. war, in Des Moines, Iowa, on Thursday, March 19, 2026 (AP Photo/Charlie Neibergall)

He said, "Jeff answered the call to serve something greater than himself. He wore the uniform with honor and courage and selfless service. He gave his life in his service to the nation, a sacrifice that humbles all of us."

Furthermore, Lt Col Jeff Frisby, O'Brien's colleague, added, "He was selfless. He was here because he loved what he did and because he loved making the lives of everyone around him better. There's a huge hole in the world because he's gone but his legacy and memory will live forever in the countless lives he touched. I miss you man. Rest easy."

Funeral service for Sgt Declan Coady 

Sgt. Declan Coady, of Des Moines, youngest US soldier killed by Iran strike (Marianne Crandall/GoFundMe)
Sgt. Declan Coady, of Des Moines, was the youngest US Army Reserve soldier killed amid the US-Iran conflict (Marianne Crandall/GoFundMe)

Meanwhile, in the afternoon, loved ones gathered at The Bridge to remember 20-year-old Sergeant Declan Coady. 

West Des Moines native, Drake University sophomore, and Eagle Scout Sgt Coady was described as a talented person during his service.

During the service, family member Crandall Gall shared a message regarding Coady’s lasting impact on his community and fellow ROTC members.

A hearse caravans in a procession for U.S. Army Reserve Maj. Jeffrey O'Brien, of Waukee, Iowa, and U.S. Army Reserve Sgt. Declan Coady, of West Des Moines, Iowa, who both died when a drone hit a command center in Port Shuaiba, Kuwait, during the Iran Israel U.S. war, in Des Moines, Iowa, Thursday, March 19, 2026. (AP Photo/Charlie Neibergall)
A hearse caravan in a procession for US Army Reserve Maj. Jeffrey O'Brien, of Waukee, Iowa, and U.S. Army Reserve Sgt. Declan Coady, of West Des Moines, Iowa, who died when a drone hit a command center in Port Shuaiba, Kuwait, during the Iran-Israel-U.S. war, in Des Moines, Iowa, on Thursday, March 19, 2026 (AP Photo/Charlie Neibergall)

“As we move forward and face life without him, I think Declan would remind all of us to not let him slow us down. That we’ve got this, and if there’s one thing we know about Declan is that he will still be the calm in the storm just in a different way now,” Gall said.

After the individual services concluded, both soldiers were transported to the Iowa Veterans Cemetery for burial. The ceremonies included full military honors to recognize their ultimate sacrifice during the operations in the Middle East.

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