Insiders reveal how many days first lady Melania Trump has spent in White House since inauguration

Insiders reveal how many days first lady Melania Trump has spent in White House since inauguration
First lady Melania Trump speaks during the unveiling of a US Postal Service stamp honoring former first lady Barbara Bush in the East Room at the White House on May 8, 2025, in Washington, DC (Kayla Bartkowski/Getty Images)

WASHINGTON, DC: Melania Trump might hold the title of First Lady again, but don’t expect to see her strutting down the White House halls. 

Multiple insiders told The New York Times that the ultra-private former model has spent fewer than 14 days at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue since her husband took office — and some say that’s a "generous" count. 

WASHINGTON, DC - MAY 08: First lady Melania Trump speaks during an event to celebrate Military Mothers in the East Room of the White House on May 08, 2025 in Washington, DC. Mrs. Trump, who has maintained a lower profile during President Trump’s second administration, will later host a postal stamp unveiling for former first lady Barbara Bush. (Photo by Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)
First lady Melania Trump speaks during an event to celebrate Military Mothers in the East Room of the White House on May 08, 2025, in Washington, DC (Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)

“We haven’t seen such a low-profile first lady since Bess Truman,” said Katherine Jellison, a historian at Ohio University who specializes in first ladies. That’s a flashback to nearly 80 years ago, when Truman famously avoided the limelight and ran off to Independence, Missouri, "whenever she had the chance.”

“She just kind of liked her own private world,” Jellison added, just like Melania.

Despite having staff in the East Wing, she barely sets foot in the office. Even the regulars at Mar-a-Lago revealed that they hardly catch a glimpse of her. 

First lady Melania Trump looks on during the White House Egg Roll on the South Lawn of the White House on April 21, 2025, in Washington, DC (Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)
First lady Melania Trump looks on during the White House Egg Roll on the South Lawn of the White House on April 21, 2025, in Washington, DC (Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)

Melania Trump's great disappearing act

Since her husband President Donald Trump was sworn in again about 108 days ago, Melania Trump has shown up at just a handful of public events. She made a rare appearance at the White House Easter Egg Roll and showed face at the International Women of Courage Awards in April.  

She did accompany the former president to Pope Francis’ funeral on April 26, but that didn’t make her any more visible. 

US President Donald Trump and US First Lady Melania Trump attend the funeral of Pope Francis in St. Peter’s Square on April 26, 2025 in Vatican City, Vatican. Pope Francis died on April 21st at the age of 88. Born in Argentina as Jorge Mario Bergoglio, he was the first Latin American and the first Jesuit to become Pope when elected in 2013. Taking the name Francis after St Francis of Assisi, he promoted a more humble version of the papacy than many of his predecessors. He will be buried outside of the Vatican in a simple wooden coffin at the Basilica Santa Maria Maggiore. (Photo by Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)
President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump attend the funeral of Pope Francis in St Peter’s Square on April 26, 2025, in Vatican City, Vatican (Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)

This week, she touched down in DC for a stamp reveal honoring Barbara Bush, followed by a celebration for military mothers. But for the most part, Melania prefers the calm of Trump Tower or the sun-soaked privacy of Palm Beach.

Trump insiders told the Times she does sneak into the White House every now and then — just not when the public’s watching.

Meme coins, kids, and a $40 million Amazon deal 

WASHINGTON, DC - MAY 08: U.S. President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump during an event to celebrate Military Mothers in the East Room of the White House on May 08, 2025 in Washington, DC. Mrs. Trump, who has maintained a lower profile during President Trump’s second administration, will later host a postal stamp unveiling for former first lady Barbara Bush. (Photo by Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)
President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump during an event to celebrate Military Mothers in the East Room of the White House on May 08, 2025, in Washington, DC (Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)

Melania Trump may be elusive, but she’s not inactive. Behind the scenes, she has been busy curating her brand. She helped push legislation aimed at protecting children from deepfake exploitation and even dipped her toes into crypto by launching a meme coin.

Also in the pipeline is the jaw-dropping $40 million documentary deal with Amazon—a high-budget retelling of her time as first lady.

But all this is apparently playing out against a backdrop of fear and trauma.

According to two sources familiar with her thinking, the attempted assassination of her husband over the summer and a separate incident where a gunman got too close at one of his golf courses shook her deeply. Melania has been uneasy about her family’s safety for years.

Even during Trump’s first inauguration back in 2017, she was nervous to get out of the car during the parade.


WASHINGTON, DC - JANUARY 20: U.S. President Donald Trump (L) waves to supporters as he walks the parade route with first lady Melania Trump during the Inaugural Parade on January 20, 2017 in Washington, DC. Donald J. Trump was sworn in today as the 45th president of the United States. (Photo by Drew Angerer/Getty Images)
President Donald Trump (L) waves to supporters as he walks the parade route with first lady Melania Trump during the Inaugural Parade on January 20, 2017, in Washington, DC (Drew Angerer/Getty Images)

Donald Trump hosts while Melania Trump ghosts

With Melania Trump allegedly glossing over her East Wing duties, President Donald Trump himself has picked up the slack. He has been seen redesigning the Rose Garden, hosting Women’s History Month receptions, and even greeting White House tour groups—all roles usually filled by the first lady.

It’s a major shift from nearly a decade ago, when Melania and Donald descended that now-iconic golden escalator together. Now, Trump is brimming with self-confidence, while Melania remains a polished enigma.

Still, she gave the world a taste of her plans in a pre-inauguration chat with Fox News back in January.

“I will be in the White House,” she said. “And, you know, when I need to be in New York, I will be in New York. When I need to be in Palm Beach, I will be in Palm Beach. But my first priority is, you know, to be a mom, to be a first lady, to be a wife. And once we are in on January 20, you serve the country.”



 

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