Real reason why Melania Trump didn’t curtsy to royal family during state visit

While greeting the monarchs, President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump shook hands with the King and Queen instead of bowing or curtsying
UPDATED SEP 18, 2025
President Donald Trump, first lady Melania Trump, King Charles III and Queen Camilla arrive for the State Banquet hosted by King Charles III and members of the Royal Family at Windsor Castle on September 17, 2025 in Windsor, England (Aaron Chown-WPA Pool/
President Donald Trump, first lady Melania Trump, King Charles III and Queen Camilla arrive for the State Banquet hosted by King Charles III and members of the Royal Family at Windsor Castle on September 17, 2025 in Windsor, England (Aaron Chown-WPA Pool/


 

WINDSOR, UK: President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump made headlines during their state visit to the United Kingdom, sparking conversation over royal protocol and mannerisms.

Melania chose not to curtsy while greeting King Charles III, Queen Camilla, and the Prince and Princess of Wales.

Trump also skipped the bow during the ceremonial greeting. Did he and Melania actually break any rules?

WINDSOR, ENGLAND - SEPTEMBER 17: (L-R) Catherine, Princess of Wales, Queen Camilla and First Lady Melania Trump arrive for a state visit at Windsor Castle on September 17, 2025 in Windsor, England. (Photo by Aaron Chown - WPA Pool/Getty Images)
(L-R) Catherine, Princess of Wales, Queen Camilla and first lady Melania Trump arrive for a state visit at Windsor Castle on September 17, 2025 in Windsor, England (Aaron Chown - WPA Pool/Getty Images)

Donald Trump and Melania's curious case of no bow or curtsy

During the greeting session, Melania skipped the customary curtsy, and President Trump did not bow his head either. Instead, both shook hands with the King and Queen, as well as the Prince and Princess of Wales.

This prompted social media chatter and speculation about whether royal etiquette had been breached. Not everyone is happy with the behavior.

"Melania Trump made a well-known protocol mistake. No respect!" one user wrote.



 

"Did anyone notice?" asked another user. 



 

Does this violate official protocol? The answer is no.

Catherine, Princess of Wales (L) and Prince William, Prince of Wales (2nd L) welcome US President Donald Trump and First Lady Melania Trump to Windsor Castle with on day two of the US President Donald Trump's second state visit to the UK on September 17, 2025 in Windsor, England. (Photo by Ian Vogler - WPA Pool/Getty Images)
Catherine, Princess of Wales (L) and Prince William, Prince of Wales (2nd L) welcome US President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump to Windsor Castle with on day two of US President Donald Trump's second state visit to the UK on September 17, 2025 in Windsor, Englan (Ian Vogler - WPA Pool/Getty Images)

According to the royal family’s official website, "There are no obligatory codes of behaviour when meeting a member of the Royal Family, but many people wish to observe the traditional forms."

Royal etiquette notes that “for men, this is a neck bow (from the head only), whilst women perform a small curtsy. Others prefer simply to shake hands in the usual way.”

Why did Melania Trump skip customary curtsy?

This isn’t the first time the president and first lady have taken a more relaxed approach.

Melania’s choice reflects the flexible approach often allowed for leaders when meeting the royal family. 

As per People, during Trump’s first state visit in 2018, he shook hands with Queen Elizabeth II instead of bowing and even placed his hand on her back at the state banquet.

In 2019, during his first official state visit, Trump placed his hand on Queen Elizabeth II’s back at the state banquet.



 

Trump and Melania arrived in the UK on September 17, where Prince William and the Princess of Wales welcomed them for their second state visit.

Together, they walked to Windsor Castle to meet King Charles and Queen Camilla for a formal royal welcome.

After their conversation with the Royals, both the US and British national anthems were played during the reception.

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