Melania Trump is not an overprotective mom, says ex-aide as she reveals her real side with son Barron

Melania Trump's former aide Stephanie Grisham revealed that the former first lady is not the ultimate 'mama bear' kind of parent to her son Barron
Melania Trump's ex-aide Stephanie Grisham claimed that the former first lady is more lenient toward Barron Trump than it seems (Getty Images, JNI/Star Max/GC Images and Leon Neal/Getty Images)
Melania Trump's ex-aide Stephanie Grisham claimed that the former first lady is more lenient toward Barron Trump than it seems (Getty Images, JNI/Star Max/GC Images and Leon Neal/Getty Images)

PALM BEACH, FLORIDA: Melania Trump's former aide threw light on what kind of a mother the former first lady is with son Barron Trump, dismissing her protective mother image.

Stephanie Grisham revealed that Melania is not the ultimate mama bear kind of parent to her 18-year-old son.

Speaking to Nicki Swift about Barron's involvement in his father Donald Trump's political campaign, the former aide claimed Melania was more lenient to Barron than anyone could assume. 

"She always felt it was important to let [Barron] make his own choices, so I doubt this is any different," Grisham said.

WASHINGTON, DC - AUGUST 27:  First lady Melania Trump (L) looks at her son Barron Trump after U.S. P
Melania Trump is not the mama bear kind of parent to Barron Trump, according to her former aide (Getty Images)

Melania Trump 'respects' Barron Trump's decision

Days before graduating high school from Oxbridge Academy in West Palm Beach in May, Barron Trump made headlines for declining to be a delegate from Florida at the Republican National Convention (RNC).

On behalf of her son, Melania announced the decision through a public statement, which sparked speculations that she may have encouraged him not to attend the event.

"While Barron is honored to have been chosen as a delegate by the Florida Republican Party, he regretfully declines to participate due to prior commitments," Melania's representatives said in May.

WASHINGTON, DC - AUGUST 16: Barron Trump, US President Donald Trump and First lady Melania Trump wal
Barron Trump did not attend the Republican National Convention with Melania Trump to support his father Donald Trump (Getty Images)

However, Grisham's take on Melania's motherly nature painted a picture that was different from being a protective parent to her teenage son.

Barron started college at New York University's Stern School of Business in September.

Melania, who single-handedly raised Barron while her husband Donald was busy in his real estate empire and politics in the last decade, did not impose herself as a strict mother. Instead, she inculcated his own individuality.

In a recent interview on 'Fox & Friends', the former FLOTUS shared insights on Barron's NYU acceptance and his choice to stay with her at Trump Tower.

Former U.S. First Lady Melania Trump and son Barron Trump leave Trump Tower in Manhattan on July 07, 2021 in New York City. (Photo by James Devaney/GC Images)
Barron Trump is living with Melania Trump at the Trump Tower after starting his college at NYU (James Devaney/GC Images)

"I raised Barron as [his] own person and give him his own yes and nos," she said. "I respect that it was his decision to come here, that he wants to be [in] New York and study [in] New York and live in his home and I respect that."

Melania also gushed about her teenage son's independence while talking about the blended Trump family consisting of his four half-siblings from the former president's first two marriages -- Donald Trump Jr, Ivanka, Eric, and Tiffany Trump. 

"Everybody's in control of [their] own self," the ex-FLOTUS said. "I'm not in control of my husband. I'm not in control of his children. I'm not even in control of my child."

In 2023, a source revealed to People that Barron was Melania's "first priority" always, and she was a "good mother."

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