Allison Holker reveals late husband Stephen 'tWitch' Boss’ final words to daughter before tragic death

Allison Holker said that their teen daughter Weslie Fowler was the last person to see Stephen 'tWitch' Boss alive before his tragic death in 2022
PUBLISHED JAN 8, 2025
Allison Holker's husband Stephen 'tWitch' Boss, whom she married in 2013, died at the age of 40 in December 2022 (Getty Images)
Allison Holker's husband Stephen 'tWitch' Boss, whom she married in 2013, died at the age of 40 in December 2022 (Getty Images)

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LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Two years after the shocking death of Stephen “tWitch” Boss, his widow Allison Holker has disclosed the final words he said to their eldest daughter while dropping her off at school.

Allison Holker told PEOPLE that their teenage daughter Weslie Fowler was the last one to see the choreographer alive before he took his life at the age of 40 on December 13, 2022. According to Holker, he reportedly told Weslie, “I wish I could be your Superman.”



 

Allison Holker says daughter Weslie handles dad Stephen 'tWitch' Boss’ death with ‘grace’

Speaking about how her eldest daughter Weslie is dealing with her father's death, Allison Holker said on Tuesday, January 7, “Having someone say last words to you that you didn't really process at the time as being anything wrong ... that's really hard, especially as a teenager.”

The 36-year-old dancer continued that her daughter "handles it with far more grace than she should have to." "We took the steps to really help her and communicate with her and make her feel seen and heard," she added. 

Weslie Fowler with her mother Alison Holker at Rookie Kids Fashion Show at NYA WEST on September 26, 2024, in Los Angeles, California (Anna Webber/Getty Images for Rookie Kids Fashion Show)
Weslie Fowler with her mother Alison Holker at Rookie Kids Fashion Show at NYA WEST on September 26, 2024, in Los Angeles, California (Anna Webber/Getty Images for Rookie Kids Fashion Show)

“I think she also sees those words as something beautiful, and also ugly. It's a battle that she's going to always have with herself, but I know she can see it from both sides,” Holker continued.

Allison Holker found disturbing things in closet after husband’s death

During the same interview, the former ‘So You Think You Can Dance’ contestant revealed that soon after her husband’s death, she discovered something very disturbing in her closet.

She told the publication, “I was with one of my really dear friends, and we were cleaning out the closet and picking out an outfit for him for the funeral. It was a really triggering moment for me because there were a lot of things I discovered in our closet that I did not know existed.” 

HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - JUNE 25: Allison Holker and Stephen
Allison Holker and Stephen 'tWitch' Boss and family attend 'Minions: The Rise of Gru' Los Angeles premiere at TCL Chinese Theatre on June 25, 2022, in Hollywood, California (Jon Kopaloff/Getty Images)

Holker, who had children Weslie, 16, Maddox, 8, and five-year-old Zaia with Boss, further explained that she was devastated to know that “there was so much happening that I had no clue [about].”

“It was a really scary moment in my life to figure that out, but it also helped me process that he was going through so much and he was hiding so much, and there must have been a lot of shame in that,” she added.

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - DECEMBER 05: Stephen
Stephen 'tWitch' Boss attends Critics Choice Association's 5th Annual Celebration of Black Cinema & Television at Fairmont Century Plaza on December 5, 2022, in Los Angeles, California (Getty Images)

Stephen 'tWitch' Boss’ mother asked for prayers for her family

This came after ‘The Ellen DeGeneres Show’ co-executive producer’s death sent shockwaves among his family, friends, and fans.

His devastated mother, Connie Boss Alexander, shared at the time, as per TODAY.com, “Family and friends, thank you for all the love, prayers and encouragement. Please know I see all the messages, texts, posts and the phone calls.”

“I can’t use words right now. Please know I will reach out when I can. Please continue to keep us in prayer,” Alexander added. 

HOLLYWOOD, CA - APRIL 23:  Dancers tWitch and Allison Holker attend the Los Angeles Global Premiere
Stephen 'tWitch' Boss and Allison Holker attend the Los Angeles Global Premiere for Marvel Studios 'Avengers: Infinity War' on April 23, 2018, in Hollywood, California (Matt Winkelmeyer/Getty Images for Disney)

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