Ben Stiller reveals reason for 4-year split from Christine Taylor: 'Never didn’t want us to be together'

Despite the separation, Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor remained committed to co-parenting their two children, Ella and Quinlin
UPDATED JAN 14, 2025
Ben Stiller opened up about his and Christine Taylor’s decision to separate back in 2017 (Getty Images)
Ben Stiller opened up about his and Christine Taylor’s decision to separate back in 2017 (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor who have been married since 2000, temporarily separated in 2017 after 17 years together.

However, the couple's story took a hopeful turn during the pandemic when they reconnected and ultimately reconciled.

Ben Stiller says separation was about seeing how much he valued his family

NEW YORK, NEW YORK - AUGUST 27: Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor attend day two of the 2024 US Open Tennis Championships at the USTA Billie Jean King Tennis Center on August 27, 2024 in Flushing Meadows, Queens, New York City. (Photo by Jean Catuffe/GC Images)
Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor at the 2024 US Open Tennis Championships on August 27, 2024 in Queens, New York City (Jean Catuffe/GC Images)

In a candid interview with The New York Times, Ben Stiller shared how their time apart gave him perspective.

“When we separated, it was about having space to see what our relationship was, what my life felt like when we weren’t in that relationship, how much I loved our family unit,” he said.

The couple shares two children, Ella, 22, and Quinlin, 19, and remained committed to co-parenting throughout their separation.

Stiller emphasized that even during their time apart, he never lost sight of his desire to reunite with Taylor. “In my mind, I never didn’t want us to be together,” he explained.

Pandemic brings Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor back together

NEW YORK, NY - FEBRUARY 09:  Quinlin Stiller, Ben Stiller, Christine Taylor and Ella Stiller attend
Quinlin Stiller, Ben Stiller, Christine Taylor and Ella Stiller attend the 'Zoolander 2' World Premiere at Alice Tully Hall on February 9, 2016 in New York City (Getty Images)

The Covid-19 pandemic became a turning point for Ben Stiller, 59, and Christine Taylor, 53.

As a precautionary measure, they moved back into the same home to ensure a stable environment for their family. It was not an immediate reconciliation as Stiller recalled that “it was almost a year of living in the same house before we were actually together again.”

Christine Taylor reflected on this period during an appearance on 'The Drew Barrymore Show' in March 2023. She acknowledged that their separation was not a decision taken lightly but was necessary for their personal growth.



 

“We were at an impasse, figuring out what was best for each other at that chapter in our lives,” she said.

Ben Stiller on personal growth and renewed commitment

Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor have highlighted how their time apart allowed them to grow as individuals.

“I feel like we have these growth spurts even as adults. That time apart helped us figure out who we are,” Taylor noted.

Meanwhile, Stiller said, “There’s nothing like that moment when you come back. You have so much more appreciation for what you have because we know we could not have it."

In 2022, Stiller publicly confirmed their reconciliation in an Esquire interview, calling it an “unexpected” yet “wonderful” outcome of the pandemic.

NEW YORK, NY - MAY 02:  Ben Stiller (L) and Christine Taylor attend the
Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor attend the 'Manus x Machina: Fashion In An Age Of Technology' Costume Institute Gala at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City (Getty Images)

The couple credits their shared history and deep connection for helping them navigate life’s challenges. Taylor, too, has emphasized the importance of their bond.

“We have a history together that brings a sense of comfort and freedom,” she said, according to People.

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