Blake Lively silent on Taylor Swift's engagement, quits trying to fix decade-long friendship

Blake Lively, who counted Taylor Swift as godmother to her daughters, made no move to reconnect, and sources said she has no plans to
UPDATED AUG 29, 2025
Blake Lively gave up on mending her friendship with Taylor Swift as she stayed silent on the singer’s engagement with Travis Kelce (Getty Images)
Blake Lively gave up on mending her friendship with Taylor Swift as she stayed silent on the singer’s engagement with Travis Kelce (Getty Images)

NEW YORK CITY, NEW YORK: Taylor Swift’s engagement to NFL star Travis Kelce sparked a flood of public congratulations from her A-list friends, but Blake Lively, once one of her closest confidantes, stayed silent, signaling a friendship that has all but collapsed.

Supermodels Gigi Hadid and Cara Delevingne rushed to share their support, and even Karlie Kloss, once estranged from Swift, liked her Instagram post announcing the proposal.

Yet Lively, who counts Swift as the godmother to her daughters, made no move to reconnect, and sources said she had no plans to.  

NEW YORK, NEW YORK - APRIL 24: Blake Lively attends the 2025 Time100 Gala at Lincoln Center on April 24, 2025 in New York City. (Photo by Taylor Hill/FilmMagic)
Blake Lively attends the 2025 Time100 Gala at Lincoln Center on April 24, 2025 in New York City (Taylor Hill/FilmMagic)

Blake Lively ends efforts to repair friendship with Taylor Swift

An insider told the Daily Mail that Lively has accepted the end of her decade-long bond with Swift, which soured earlier this year after the pop star was unwillingly drawn into Lively’s legal battle with actor Justin Baldoni.

“Blake didn't reach out [following the engagement announcement] and isn't going to,” the source said. “This isn't the time. What would be the point of reaching out now? It really makes no sense. [Lively] has bigger fish to fry.”

 Taylor Swift celebrates her birthday with Blake Lively on December 13, 2023 in New York City. (Photo by Gotham/GC Images)
Taylor Swift celebrates her birthday with Blake Lively on December 13, 2023 in New York City (Gotham/GC Images)

Back in June, sources said Lively had repeatedly tried to “reach out” through texts, voicemails, and emails, but Swift had reportedly gone silent. Now, Lively has given up trying and no longer discusses Swift with friends.

“This is something that we would've talked about in the past, like what was going to happen, if she was going to be in the wedding, what that would look like. All of that. But now, it's just silence,” the insider added.

Taylor Swift’s engagement joy clouded by rift with Blake Lively

While the absence of a message from Lively drew attention, the pop star’s engagement was otherwise met with overwhelming support from her circle. Friends and fans flooded Swift’s social media with messages of love and excitement over Travis Kelce’s proposal.


 
 
 
 
 
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Sources close to Lively emphasized that she is not “sitting home obsessing about Taylor getting engaged” because “she’s got her own life to focus on.”

Rapper Ice Spice, singer Taylor Swift and actress Blake Lively prior to Super Bowl LVIII between the San Francisco 49ers and Kansas City Chiefs at Allegiant Stadium on February 11, 2024 in Las Vegas, Nevada. (Photo by Steph Chambers/Getty Images)
Rapper Ice Spice, singer Taylor Swift and actress Blake Lively prior to Super Bowl LVIII between the San Francisco 49ers and Kansas City Chiefs at Allegiant Stadium on February 11, 2024 in Las Vegas, Nevada (Steph Chambers/Getty Images)

The actress remains embroiled in an ongoing legal dispute with Baldoni, accusing him of a “smear campaign” that left her “terrified” for her life, according to newly unsealed court documents. However, Baldoni has denied her claims.

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