Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck's pics together served as 'final straw' for Jennifer Lopez before divorce

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Jennifer Lopez's decision to file for divorce from Ben Affleck in August 2024 marked a definitive end to the Bennifer era, a relationship that captivated fans twice over.

The couple’s marriage lasted just two years, a stark contrast to Affleck's previous marriage with Jennifer Garner, which spanned a decade.

An insider has now revealed details that led to Lopez's breaking point and the pivotal role Garner played in the unraveling of Lopez and Affleck’s marriage, as reported by Showbiz Cheatsheet.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner's photos served as 'final straw' for Jennifer Lopez

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner have maintained a cordial relationship since their split, co-parenting their three children with a sense of unity that Lopez reportedly found troubling.

After marrying in 2005, Affleck and Garner split in 2015, with their divorce finalizing in 2018. Despite their separation, the former couple remained on good terms, frequently spending time together for the sake of their kids.

This continued closeness took on new dimensions in 2024 when Affleck began visiting Garner more frequently amid his marital struggles with Lopez.

Paparazzi captured several moments of Affleck visiting Garner's home, sparking rumors and speculations. According to an insider who spoke to In Touch Weekly, these photos were the catalyst that led Lopez to finally call it quits.

"Seeing the photos of them looking more like a couple than a pair of exes was the final straw for JLo; it was the push she needed to finally file for divorce," the source revealed.

Lopez had hoped that the issues in her marriage could be resolved, but Affleck’s focus seemed to lie elsewhere.

"It was horrible for JLo because she’s now left wondering if she was some sort of pawn that he used to try and win Jen back," the insider continued, further alleging that Affleck constantly praised Garner throughout their marriage, leaving Lopez feeling betrayed.

Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Lopez's friendly relationship was reportedly superficial

During Jennifer Lopez's marriage with Ben Affleck, Lopez and Jennifer Garner made an effort to appear friendly in public.

Despite the facade of cordiality, sources suggest there was an underlying tension between the two women.

"Jen was extremely tolerant and always found a way to bite her tongue and be cordial to J.Lo whenever they were in the same room," a source told Life & Style.

The insider went on to explain that the two were vastly different personalities, "like oil and water."

The children played a significant role in maintaining this semblance of peace. Affleck and Lopez's kids had grown close, which Garner reportedly didn't want to disrupt.

Now that Lopez and Affleck's marriage is coming to an end, the need for this superficial friendship between Lopez and Garner has also dissipated. "But as far as her relationship with JLo, that’s done, and she totally agrees it’s for the best," the insider added.

While Lopez may have had concerns about Garner and Affleck rekindling their past romance, Garner appears content in her current relationship with businessman John Miller.

The two have been dating since 2018, and according to a source from PEOPLE, their relationship is serious.

"She loves Miller and understands her priority," the insider shared, emphasizing that Garner's focus remains on her children and her new partner.

Miller and Garner's relationship is described as "fun and easy-going," a dynamic that contrasts sharply with the drama surrounding Affleck and Lopez.