Joe Manganiello responds to Sofia Vergara’s pointed ‘narcissistic men’ post

Joe Manganiello urged people to read his memoir 'Bloodlines' before judging him, saying it detailed his suffering and journey toward hope
Joe Manganiello responded to Sofia Vergara’s apparent criticism of him (Amy Sussman/Getty Images)
Joe Manganiello responded to Sofia Vergara’s apparent criticism of him (Amy Sussman/Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Joe Manganiello has responded to his Sofia Vergara's apparent dig at him through a social media post about “narcissistic men.”

The actor addressed the post while promoting his memoir 'Bloodlines', which details his experience with a near-fatal autoimmune disorder, on 'CBS Mornings' on Monday, October 12.

Sofia Vergara shares post comparing a 'good man' to a 'narcissistic man'

During the conversation, Gayle King asked Manganiello about Vergara’s recent Instagram Story, which contrasted the behavior of a “good man” with that of a “narcissistic man.”

The Colombian-American actress’ 35-year-old son, Manolo Gonzalez Vergara, had reportedly shared the post first, and his mother reshared it.

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - FEBRUARY 15: Joe Manganiello attends the Art Directors Guild's 29th annual Excellence In Production Design Awards at InterContinental Los Angeles Downtown on February 15, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Michael Tullberg/Getty Images)
Joe Manganiello attended the Art Directors Guild's 29th annual Excellence in Production Design Awards in Los Angeles on February 15, 2025 (Michael Tullberg/Getty Images)

Sofia Vergara's post appears to take a dig at Joe Manganiello

Below the chart comparing the behaviors of two types of men, a caption read, “Remember kids, when dealing with a narcissist, it doesn’t matter how much you do for them, because they will resent you for it and nothing will ever be enough, and they’ll always somehow try to paint you as the bad guy.”

On October 12, King asked the 'Magic Mike' star about the post and its apparent implication.

“Her son posted a thing about, ‘This is what happens when you deal with a narcissistic man,’ and she has liked that post. They appear to be saying that basically, it’s terrible what happened to you but the bottom line is that you’re a narcissist. What do you say to that?” King asked.

AUSTIN, TEXAS - MARCH 09: Joe Manganiello speaks on stage during the keynote 'Colossal: Technology Company Turning Science Fiction to Science Fact' session at 2025 SXSW Conference and Festival Austin Convention Center on March 09, 2025 in Austin, Texas.  (Photo by Marcus Ingram/Getty Images)
Joe Manganiello speaks on stage during the keynote 'Colossal: Technology Manganiello spoke at the 'Colossal: Technology Company Turning Science Fiction to Science Fact' keynote at SXSW in Austin on March 9, 2025 (Marcus Ingram/Getty Images)

Joe Manganiello says readers should understand his memoir first

In response, the 49-year-old actor urged people to read his book before making assumptions about him.

“Well, I think anybody who said that should read the book first and understand what the book is actually about because it’s not about that. It’s about the suffering I went through,” Manganiello said.

He explained that his book, released on October 13, was about “survival and it’s also about hope”.

Joe Manganiello says he wrote his memoir to 'tell the truth'

In an interview with PEOPLE, Manganiello also explained his approach to writing about his experiences.

“I tell the truth in the book, even when it’s super painful. It is [also] nuanced, and it’s not something that fits into a sound bite. This book was written because I want people to know who I am, and I had to hide who I was for a very long time,” he said.

BEVERLY HILLS, CALIFORNIA - FEBRUARY 09: (L-R) Joe Manganiello and Sofía Vergara attend the 2020 Vanity Fair Oscar Party hosted by Radhika Jones at Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts on February 09, 2020 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Rich Fury/VF20/Getty Images for Vanity Fair)
Manganiello and Vergara attended the 2020 Vanity Fair Oscar Party in Beverly Hills on February 9, 2020 (Rich Fury/VF20/Getty Images for Vanity Fair)

The 'True Blood' actor reportedly discussed his relationship with Vergara in the memoir and claimed that his illness had left their marriage “become devoid of any emotionality whatsoever”.

The two eventually parted ways in 2023.

Sofia Vergara says she and Joe Manganiello disagreed about having children

Vergara, 54, previously offered a different explanation for why their marriage ended. She said their disagreement over having children contributed to their separation.

“He wanted to have kids and I didn’t want to be an old mom …” she said.

“I feel it’s not fair to the baby. I respect whoever does it, but that’s not for me anymore,” the actress added.

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