Lily Allen 'devastated' after finding estranged husband David Harbour on celeb dating app

Lily Allen and David Harbour met on a dating app in 2019, fell in love, deleted their accounts, and secretly married in Las Vegas a year later
PUBLISHED JAN 5, 2025
Lily Allen found her estranged husband, actor David Harbour's secret profile on the celebrity dating app Raya (Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images)
Lily Allen found her estranged husband, actor David Harbour's secret profile on the celebrity dating app Raya (Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images)

NEW YORK CITY, NEW YORK: Singer Lily Allen was reportedly agonized after she discovered her estranged husband, actor David Harbour's secret profile on the celebrity dating app Raya, as per the Daily Mail.

Ironically, 39-year-old Allen met Harbour, 49, on Raya back in 2019 and got married in Las Vegas a year later. They had both deleted their accounts after that, until now.

Lily Allen attends the Giorgio Armani Women's SS25 Fashion Show and Afterparty at Park Avenue Armory on October 17, 2024 in New York City. (Photo by Theo Wargo/Getty Images for Giorgio Armani)
Lily Allen attends the Giorgio Armani Women's SS25 Fashion Show and Afterparty at Park Avenue Armory on October 17, 2024 in New York City (Theo Wargo/Getty Images for Giorgio Armani)

While the couple is yet to make any public statement about their relationship after speculations of them splitting up grew in December 2024, a friend of Allen confirmed that they had officially 'separated.'

How did Lily Allen discover David Harbour on Raya?

Lily Allen suspected her husband of cheating, and joined Raya herself to play detective by pretending to be 'looking for women.'

"Lily was looking for women that were on Raya and cross-referencing them with women David follows on Instagram to try to figure out who he was seeing," a source shared with the publication.

Lily Allen and David Harbour attend the
Lily Allen and David Harbour attend the "Dreamland" Special Screening at Picturehouse Central on March 30, 2023 in London, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)

The effort resulted in her finding Harbour's dating profile, which was listed as being active for at least a month.

"Lily only rejoined Raya to try to figure out whether he was seeing someone," shared another source. "Lily has never even looked at anyone since she met David. She is devastated. He broke up with Lily a month ago. He was meant to be on holiday with her in Kenya over Christmas."

Another friend reportedly stated, "The last few months have been truly agony for Lily. He finally called it off a month ago and she is devastated."

David Harbour's Raya dating profile

According to the Daily Mail, David Harbour's new dating profile of Raya reads, 'Visiting New York from Atlanta' and 'Closet nerd that plays tough guys on your TV.' The profile song is set to be Houses Of The Holy by Led Zeppelin.

Harbour states that he lives in Atlanta, Georgia, which is 800 miles away from his and Allen's home in Brooklyn, New York, where the couple moved in 2020.

Allen had enrolled her children, Ethel, 13, and Marnie, 11, in local schools, and shared that they were having a tough time going through the separation.

To be close to the set of the Netflix series 'Stranger Things,' Harour bought a house in Atlanta last year.

SAN DIEGO, CALIFORNIA - JULY 27: David Harbour attends the Marvel Studios Press Line during 2024 Comic-Con International at Hilton Bayfront on July 27, 2024 in San Diego, California. (Photo by Amy Sussman/WireImage)
David Harbour attends the Marvel Studios Press Line during 2024 Comic-Con International at Hilton Bayfront on July 27, 2024 in San Diego, California (Amy Sussman/WireImage)

A source told the publication, "Lily is of the belief that he has been open to meeting new people for some time now, though she only found out at the end of the summer. He has been living in Atlanta for a year for filming."

Harbour was also spotted visiting the Himalayan foothills in India last week, where he was seen in the company of a woman who was described as "not blonde, very slim, and aged between 22 and 30."

At the same time, Allen holidayed with her children, from her first marriage to builder Sam Cooper, in Kenya, 3000 miles away.

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