Melania Trump skips Bettina Anderson's bridal shower as Ivanka and Marla Maples attend

While Melania Trump skipped the event, a source described the shower as 'gorgeous'
Melania Trump was noticeably absent from Donald Trump Jr and Bettina Anderson's wedding shower at Mar-a-Lago on Sunday, April 12 (Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images, Instagram/Bettina Anderson)
Melania Trump was noticeably absent from Donald Trump Jr and Bettina Anderson's wedding shower at Mar-a-Lago on Sunday, April 12 (Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images, Instagram/Bettina Anderson)

WASHINGTON, DC: As Donald Trump’s eldest son Donald Trump Jr inches closer to tying the knot with Bettina Anderson, with the couple hosting a lavish bridal shower at Mar-a-Lago on Sunday, April 12, an absence did not go unnoticed. 

Melania Trump seemingly skipped the event, PEOPLE reported, quoting sources. 

Melania Trump absent from Bettina Anderson’s bridal shower

While Melania’s absence was noted and raised eyebrows, other notable members, such as Ivanka Trump and Tiffany Trump, Bettina's would-be sisters-in-law, attended the lavish event.  

PALM BEACH, FLORIDA - MARCH 15: (L-R) Donald Trump Jr. and Bettina Anderson attend amfAR Palm Beach Gala on March 15, 2025 in Palm Beach, Florida. (Photo by Mireya Acierto/Getty Images for amfAR)
Donald Trump Jr and Bettina Anderson attend the amfAR Palm Beach Gala on March 15, 2025, in Palm Beach, Florida (Mireya Acierto/Getty Images for amfAR)

The president's second wife, Marla Maples, also showed up at the pre-nuptial celebration ahead of Don Jr and Bettina's wedding. Marla even shared an Instagram Story with photos from the event and wrote, "So happy to share in your love. Congrats." 

Even though Melania is known to maintain a low profile and rarely makes an appearance at events, her absence from the family event was widely noticed.

First lady Melania Trump looks on during the White House Egg Roll on the South Lawn of the White House on April 21, 2025, in Washington, DC (Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)
First lady Melania Trump looks on during the White House Egg Roll on the South Lawn of the White House on April 21, 2025, in Washington, DC (Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)

This was one of several events involving Melania that raised eyebrows.

She reportedly did not invite Ivanka, Don Jr, and Eric Trump to Barron Trump’s 20th birthday earlier this year, with only Tiffany reportedly attending the event.

Mar-a-lago decked out in floral for bridal shower

(Bettina Anderson/Instagram)
(Bettina Anderson/Instagram)

“The shower was gorgeous,” the source told PEOPLE. “The event was held mostly inside and was lovely but there were guests hanging outside some of the time."

The highlights of the lavish event were the decoration of the ballroom, the menu, and high-end return gifts.

The ballroom was decked with flowers, and the menu included dishes like a burrata salad, chicken roulade for the main course, and mixed berries for dessert.

Bettina generously gifted her guests luxury products like skincare, clothing, and more.

(Bettina Anderson/Instagram)
(Bettina Anderson/Instagram)

Donald Trump Jr and Bettina Anderson eyeing White House as wedding venue

Don Jr, 48, and Bettina, 39, announced their engagement in December last year at a White House event.

Rather than going with Mar-a-lago, the couple is reportedly considering the White House for their wedding venue. 

WASHINGTON - MAY 31: The exterior view of the south side of the White House is seen May 31, 2005 in Washington, DC. Vanity Fair Magazine reported that former FBI official W. Mark Felt claimed himself was ?Deep Throat,? the anonymous source who provided information to Washington Post reporter Bob Woodward?s famous Watergate investigation report that led to the former President Richard Nixon's resignation. (Photo by Alex Wong/Getty Images)
The exterior view of the south side of the White House is seen on May 31, 2005, in Washington, DC (Alex Wong/Getty Images)

“This would set them up for future political roles, whether Don Jr goes after the presidency or something else,” the source told PEOPLE. “This is a consideration.”

If they go with the White House, it won’t be the first time for a couple to get hitched there, with the most recent being former President Joe Biden’s granddaughter. Naomi Biden and Peter Neal shared wedding vows in 2022 on the South Lawn of the White House.

Such weddings are historically significant, and it would be a chance for the Trumps to be part of something extra special.

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