Real reason why Melania Trump is spending more time with husband Donald despite absence from White House

Real reason why Melania Trump is spending more time with husband Donald despite absence from White House
Since President Donald Trump's January 20 inauguration, Melania Trump has spent fewer than 14 days at the White House (Getty Images)

WASHINGTON, DC: She’s back in the White House—but if you’re wondering why you haven’t seen much of Melania Trump since Donald Trump’s January 20 inauguration, you’re not alone.

The famously private first lady has reportedly spent less than 14 days at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue since her husband returned to office. 

US President Donald Trump and US First Lady Melania Trump attend the funeral of Pope Francis in St. Peter’s Square on April 26, 2025 in Vatican City, Vatican. Pope Francis died on April 21st at the age of 88. Born in Argentina as Jorge Mario Bergoglio, he was the first Latin American and the first Jesuit to become Pope when elected in 2013. Taking the name Francis after St Francis of Assisi, he promoted a more humble version of the papacy than many of his predecessors. He will be buried outside of the Vatican in a simple wooden coffin at the Basilica Santa Maria Maggiore. (Photo by Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)
President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump attend the funeral of Pope Francis in St Peter’s Square on April 26, 2025, in Vatican City, Vatican (Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)

Melania continues to be one of the most elusive first ladies in US history, rarely appearing in public and even more rarely alongside her husband. Her second term as FLOTUS comes after what insiders describe as a “very low period” in her marriage, but she’s been popping up around Trump more often of late—and apparently for a very personal reason, the Irish Star reported.

Trump and Melania’s marriage is said to have taken a sharp hit last year when the former was convicted of fraud over alleged hush money payments to adult film star Stormy Daniels.

LAS VEGAS, NEVADA - JANUARY 26:  Adult film actress/director Stormy Daniels attends the 2019 Adult V
Stormy Daniels attends the 2019 Adult Video News Awards at The Joint inside the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino on January 26, 2019, in Las Vegas, Nevada (Ethan Miller/Getty Images)

Trump vehemently denies Daniels’ claims, but the alleged encounter happened in 2006, just one year after he and Melania tied the knot.

Melania didn’t attend a single day of court during the case. According to those close to her, she was not happy.

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“When she found out years ago about Stormy Daniels, she was the most upset she’s been,” said Washington Post journalist Mary Jordan, author of 'The Art of Her Deal: The Untold Story of Melania Trump', in an interview with The Times. “She was furious and it was a very low period.”

The case notably cast an unflattering spotlight on the couple’s history. But in a welcome twist, Jordan says the scandal may have pulled them closer together.

Former first lady Melania Trump and Republican presidential nominee, former U.S. President Donald Trump walk off the stage after a campaign rally at Madison Square Garden on October 27, 2024 in New York City. Trump closed out his weekend of campaigning in New York City with a guest list of speakers that includes his running mate Republican Vice Presidential nominee, U.S. Sen. J.D. Vance (R-OH), Tesla CEO Elon Musk, UFC CEO Dana White, and House Speaker Mike Johnson, among others, nine days before Election Day. (Photo by Michael M. Santiago/Getty Images)
First lady Melania Trump and US President Donald Trump walk off the stage after a campaign rally at Madison Square Garden on October 27, 2024, in New York City (Michael M Santiago/Getty Images)

“The trials and the cases in court have infuriated her and drawn her closer to Trump. She believes that he has been persecuted,” Jordan explained.

So while she’s still not showing up at every campaign rally or White House function, Melania has quietly been standing by her man, just on her terms.

Though she’s been keeping a low profile, Melania did step out with Trump last month for a rare joint appearance at the funeral of Pope Francis in Rome. They even held hands while walking through the Vatican.

US President Donald Trump and US First Lady Melania Trump arrive at the funeral of Pope Francis in St. Peter’s Square on April 26, 2025 in Vatican City, Vatican. Pope Francis died on April 21st at the age of 88. Born in Argentina as Jorge Mario Bergoglio, he was the first Latin American and the first Jesuit to become Pope when elected in 2013. Taking the name Francis after St Francis of Assisi, he promoted a more humble version of the papacy than many of his predecessors. He will be buried outside of the Vatican in a simple wooden coffin at the Basilica Santa Maria Maggiore. (Photo by Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)
US President Donald Trump and US First Lady Melania Trump arrive at the funeral of Pope Francis in St. Peter’s Square on April 26, 2025, in Vatican City, Vatican (Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)

Their trip happened to fall on Melania’s 55th birthday. After landing back in the States, Trump gave her a quick kiss goodbye before they once again went their separate ways.

However, insiders say the couple has been spending more time together than usual lately, and there’s one major reason why.

It’s mostly about Barron Trump

At the heart of it all is Barron Trump. Melania and Donald Trump’s 19-year-old son has always been her top priority. According to Mary Jordan, he’s playing a crucial role in bringing his parents back together.

“Barron is critical here too,” Jordan shared. “Melania is enormously close to Barron and he is really into the fact that his father is president. Melania and Donald are now spending more time together and appearing as more of a couple than they have in the past. They’ve been in a bunker together and they’ve come out of it closer.”

Melania’s tight bond with her only child may also explain why she’s still not permanently camped out at the White House. Before the inauguration, she had already made it clear that she’d be splitting her time between Washington, Palm Beach, and New York. That’s where Barron is currently attending college—and also where Melania is often spotted these days.

Barron Trump and first lady Melania Trump listen as President Donald Trump gives his inaugural address in the U.S. Capitol Rotunda on January 20, 2025 in Washington, DC. Donald Trump takes office for his second term as the 47th president of the United States. (Photo by Saul Loeb - Pool/Getty Images)
Barron Trump and First Lady Melania Trump listen as President Donald Trump gives his inaugural address in the US Capitol Rotunda on January 20, 2025, in Washington, DC (Saul Loeb - Pool/Getty Images)

Sources say Melania was deeply shaken by the attempted assassination of her husband last July, and even more so by an incident days later involving a gunman who got alarmingly close to Trump on one of his golf courses.

For someone who already had a strong instinct to protect her son, these close calls only amplified her fears. That’s reportedly also a big part of why she’s been sticking close to their New York apartment—to make sure Barron is safe.

But this isn’t new for Melania. During Trump’s first term, she famously delayed her move to DC so Barron could finish his school year in New York. For her, it’s always been Barron first—and that hasn’t changed.

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