Rob Reiner’s son Nick felt entitled and 'didn’t want to work,’ says source

Nick Reiner, who had long struggled with addiction and identity, was arrested after Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner were found dead at their Los Angeles home
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Rob Reiner and Nick Reiner attended the AOL Build Speaker Series in New York City in 2016 (Laura Cavanaugh/FilmMagic)
Rob Reiner and Nick Reiner attended the AOL Build Speaker Series in New York City in 2016 (Laura Cavanaugh/FilmMagic)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Days after filmmaker Rob Reiner, 78, and his wife Michele Reiner, , 70, were found dead inside their Brentwood home, new details have emerged about their son Nick Reiner, who has been charged in their killings.

According to a source cited PEOPLE, Reiner struggled for years with addiction, expectations, and a sense of entitlement that strained his relationship with his parents. The source described Nick as someone who “didn’t want to work” but still expected to be loved and supported in the same way as the rest of his family. 

The source said Nick wanted a version of life that never materialized and had difficulty taking responsibility for himself. “He didn’t want to do any work but expected to be loved the way the rest of his family was,” the source told the publication.

NEW YORK, NY - APRIL 28: Honoree Rob Reiner poses with family at the 41st Annual Chaplin Award Gala at Avery Fisher Hall at Lincoln Center for the Performing Arts on April 28, 2014, in New York City. (Photo by Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)
Rob Reiner posed with his family during the 41st Annual Chaplin Award Gala in New York City in 2014 (Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)

Source says Nick Reiner struggled with expectations and identity

The source added that Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner carried deep guilt over their inability to help their son stabilize his life. According to the source, the couple felt they had failed Nick despite years of trying to support him through repeated attempts at recovery.

They hoped that 'Being Charlie,' the 2015 film co-written by Nick Reiner and directed by his father, would help him gain confidence and find his footing in the entertainment industry. The film, which drew from Nick’s personal experiences with addiction, was seen by the family as a potential turning point.

Rob Reiner and Nick Reiner attend AOL Build Speaker Series at AOL Studios In New York on May 4, 2016 in New York City. (Photo by Laura Cavanaugh/FilmMagic)
Nick Reiner appeared alongside Rob Reiner during a public appearance in New York City in 2016 (Laura Cavanaugh/FilmMagic)

By the age of 22, Nick Reiner had reportedly entered rehab more than 18 times. In a 2016 podcast appearance, he spoke candidly about growing up under the shadow of his famous father and grandfather, legendary comedian Carl Reiner.

“I had no identity, and I had no passions,” Nick said at the time. He explained that fame shaped how he saw himself, leaving him searching for meaning elsewhere. He said he attempted to carve out his own identity through rebellion and substance abuse, describing it as an angry and destructive persona.

Reiner family mourns Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner

On Sunday, December 14, Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner were found dead in their Los Angeles home. Later that evening, their 32-year-old son Nick Reiner was arrested and charged with two counts of first-degree murder.

Rob Reiber and Michele Singer Reiner attends the 2018 White House Correspondents' Dinner at Washington Hilton on April 28, 2018 in Washington, DC. (Photo by Tasos Katopodis/Getty Images)
Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner attended the White House Correspondents’ Dinner in Washington, DC, in 2018 (Tasos Katopodis/Getty Images)

Nick Reiner appeared in court on Wednesday, December 17. His attorney, Alan Jackson, did not enter a plea at that hearing. His arraignment is scheduled to continue on January 7.

In the wake of the tragedy, Rob and Michele’s other children, Jake Reiner and Romy Reiner, released a joint statement expressing their grief. They described their parents not only as loving figures but as their closest companions.

“Words cannot even begin to describe the unimaginable pain we are experiencing every moment of the day,” the statement read. “They weren’t just our parents; they were our best friends.” The siblings called the loss “horrific and devastating” as the family continues to mourn.

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