Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes are 'opposites in every way', claims source as duo clash over Montecito move

MONTECITO, CALIFORNIA: Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes might be facing trouble in their relationship, and it could all stem from their recent relocation from the hustle of Hollywood to the serenity of Montecito.

According to an exclusive source, the couple's move to the quiet California enclave has sparked friction. "It was Eva who pushed for the move," claimed the insider.

"She wanted to raise their daughters, Esmeralda, 9, and Amada, 8, outside of Los Angeles, and Ryan agreed. The problem is, he's restless and misses the energy of a big city."

Ryan Gosling is restless in quiet Montecito

Montecito, despite its celebrity residents, hasn't replaced the vibrant social life Ryan Gosling enjoyed in LA. The 'Hitch' actress, who has always valued privacy, sacrificed her career to focus on family and has no regrets.

“It was the easiest decision I’ve ever made,” Eva, 50, told People in May. However, Gosling, 43, continues to embrace his A-list status, frequently traveling for film projects and attending high-profile events solo. “Ryan loves adventure,” the source added, “and Eva has become an extremely private, even paranoid person. They really are opposites in almost every way,” per Yahoo.

Recently, Gosling and Eva made a rare public appearance with their daughters at the 2024 Paris Olympics. They attended the women’s gymnastics uneven bars final at the Bercy Arena in Paris on Sunday, August 4, where Team USA gymnast Suni Lee secured a bronze medal.

Ryan Gosling’s plans to quit Montecito and escape to London

Furthermore, if these reports are accurate, the 'La La Land' star seems to have found an ideal escape from Montecito, thanks to his ongoing filming commitments in London for the upcoming sci-fi movie 'Project Hail Mary'. In the movie, Gosling plays Ryland Grace, a science teacher turned astronaut.

With the family spending minimal time at their new residence this summer, the arrangement appears to be proving effective. The source indicates that Gosling hasn’t adapted to the quieter lifestyle—and likely won’t in the near future—having recently convinced the family to join him in London.

Subsequently, Gosling fueled rumors of a potential move to London when he was spotted house-hunting in Barnes. The Canadian actor appeared to be exploring luxurious properties in South West London, according to MEAWW.

Meanwhile, Eva reportedly wants to keep their daughters, Esmeralda and Amada, shielded from the limelight. Nevertheless, the 'Barbie' star is reportedly eager to establish himself in the UK so that he has a place to live while visiting.

“The family has spent hardly any time in Montecito this summer,” the source stated. “That works well for Ryan, but it hasn’t been great for putting down roots. Eva has more control in the relationship, and the kids are the thing keeping them together.”