Selena Gomez wanted to adopt a child at 35 to end loneliness but boyfriend Benny Blanco changed her plans
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LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Selena Gomez's life trajectory took a surprising turn when she met her current boyfriend, music producer Benny Blanco, as reported by People.
In an exclusive interview with TIME, the Rare Beauty founder revealed that she had been considering adoption before their relationship blossomed.
Selena Gomez's adoption plans changed after Benny Blanco romance
Gomez, 31, reflected on her five-year period of being single, a time she grew accustomed to solitude. "A lot of people are afraid of being alone, and I probably tortured myself in my head for like two years being alone, and then I kind of accepted it," she shared.
During this period, she formulated a plan, "I was going to adopt at 35 if I had not met anyone."
However, her plans changed unexpectedly when her friendship with Blanco turned romantic. "It just happens when you least expect it," Gomez noted.
Despite Blanco's public declarations of wanting to marry and start a family with Gomez, she remains cautious. "I know what people can do to people I love. My own fans, who I adore and feel like have shaped who I am, will say the most hurtful things to me about how I live my life," she explained. Gomez appreciates Blanco's resilience against public scrutiny, adding, "He has the strength in him that none of that noise fazes him."
Gomez cherishes her moments with Blanco, stating, "It's really impressive, and I just cherish every moment with him. I don't know what the future holds, but I do know that he's not going anywhere any time soon."
Blanco hinted at his hopes for the future during an interview with Howard Stern. When asked about proposing to Gomez, he admitted, “When I look at her … I’m always just like, I don’t know a world where it could be better than this.” With their first anniversary approaching around Gomez’s birthday on July 22, Blanco teased that he has "some really good stuff" planned for the celebration.
Selena Gomez’s fans say Benny Blanco 'makes her happy'
Selena Gomez’s revelation about her adoption plans before meeting her boyfriend Benny Blanco has sparked a flurry of reactions online.
The reactions have been varied, with many fans expressing support for Gomez’s choices and her happiness. One user commented, "As long as she's happy. That's what matters. Happiness is key. Not looks."
Another wrote, "She wants to adopt now that Justin is gonna have a baby? Ahh ok," referencing her famous ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber.
Some fans voiced concern about her current relationship. "Better to adopt a baby than be with him Selena! Run while u can!!" urged one user. Others shared their hopes for her well-being, with one saying, "Hope he won’t hurt her."
However, many fans are thrilled about her relationship with Blanco. "Love them together, he makes her happy," one user stated, while another added, "She deserves all the happiness in the world, and if Benny makes her happy, that’s all that matters."
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