Tom Sandoval's bandmate claims Victoria Lee Robinson was 'manipulative and evil' toward reality star

Jason Bader said the toxic relationship affected the entire band, with members urging Tom Sandoval not to bring Victoria Lee Robinson on tour
Jason Bader, the drummer and manager of Tom Sandoval's band, called Victoria Lee Robinson 'the worst person' he had ever met, claiming Sandoval rarely retaliated and instead tried to de-escalate confrontations (Amanda Edwards/Getty Images)
Jason Bader, the drummer and manager of Tom Sandoval's band, called Victoria Lee Robinson 'the worst person' he had ever met, claiming Sandoval rarely retaliated and instead tried to de-escalate confrontations (Amanda Edwards/Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: One of the bandmates of Tom Sandoval has called out Victoria Lee Robinson by accusing her of violently and emotionally abusing the reality star for months.

Jason Bader, the manager and drummer of Sandoval's band, spoke with the Daily Mail while claiming to see the model punching, kicking and spitting at Sandoval “several times” while they were touring.

Tom Sandoval’s bandmate calls Victoria Lee Robinson 'the worst person'

He said, “She is the worst person I have ever met in my entire life. I have never met someone so two-faced, manipulative and evil. It was sick watching it all go down. I have never experienced anything like it.”

WOODLAND HILLS, CALIFORNIA - NOVEMBER 26: Tom Sandoval (L) and Victoria Lee Robinson (R) attend Hope The Mission and Los Angeles Mission Hosts Thanksgiving Dinner at Woodlands Family Shelter on November 26, 2025 in Woodland Hills, California. (Photo by Paul Archuleta/Getty Images)
Tom Sandoval (L) and Victoria Lee Robinson (R) attend Hope The Mission and Los Angeles Mission Hosts Thanksgiving Dinner at Woodlands Family Shelter on November 26, 2025 in Woodland Hills, California (Photo by Paul Archuleta/Getty Images)

The bandmate further asserted that he “never saw Tom retaliate in any physical way.”

“Tom is someone who has the ability to defend himself and physically match up with people because he's a wrestler. Even when people are getting rough with him, like fans, he wants to de-escalate the situation,” Bader explained, before adding, “I heard him yell back at her, but that's it.”

Jason Bader gives example of Victoria Lee Robinson getting violent with Tom Sandoval

Bader then went on to mention the June 3 violent incident involving Sandoval, Robinson and her father J Will Robinson (who goes by Will). Following the episode, the former ‘Vanderpump Rules’ star even got two restraining orders against Robinson and Will.

Victoria Lee Robinson and Tom Sandoval attend The h.wood Group's 10th annual red, white & bootsy 4th of July, presented by LF*GO!™️ ENERGY at Nobu Malibu on July 04, 2024 in Malibu, California. (Photo by Vivien Killilea/Getty Images for The h.wood Group )
Victoria Lee Robinson and Tom Sandoval attend The h.wood Group's 10th annual red, white & bootsy 4th of July, presented by LF*GO!™️ ENERGY at Nobu Malibu on July 04, 2024 in Malibu, California (Photo by Vivien Killilea/Getty Images for The h.wood Group )

As per Bader, the 34-year-old had behaved violently earlier also. He mentioned an October 10 incident that happened in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, between the ex-couple. The alleged fight got so out of control that security and personnel had to intervene.

Calling Robinson “fame-hungry, ruthless sadist”, Bader stated, “She is a very messy person and would be so violent with him. She scared me. She will do whatever it takes for the betterment of herself.”

Victoria Lee Robinson allegedly wants to be famous like Tom Sandoval's ex Ariana Madix

The drummer also told the Daily Mail that Robinson wants to become like Sandoval's ex-girlfriend Ariana Madix, whose breakthrough came after the 43-year-old cheated on her with her best friend and ‘Vanderpump Rules’ co-star Rachel 'Raquel' Leviss.

Tom Sandoval and Victoria Lee Robinson attend the 16th annual Thirst Gala at SLS Hotel, a Luxury Collection Hotel, Beverly Hills on June 28, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Michael Tullberg/Getty Images)
Tom Sandoval and Victoria Lee Robinson attend the 16th annual Thirst Gala at SLS Hotel, a Luxury Collection Hotel, Beverly Hills on June 28, 2025 in Los Angeles, California (Photo by Michael Tullberg/Getty Images)

“I am going to ruin you. I am going to get the Ariana treatment. I hate you. I don't want to be with you,” he claimed to hear Robinson saying this to Sandoval.

The longtime pal of Sandoval has even alleged that Robinson “didn't want Tom to be a part of anything else except to focus on her.”

“She separated him from family, friends, businesses and opportunities because it didn't involve her. It affected everybody,” Bader asserted.

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