Benny Blanco reveals Selena Gomez's mother Mandy Teefey set up their first meeting

Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez opened up about their first meeting and developing feelings for each other in an interview published on Valentine's Day
PUBLISHED FEB 18, 2025
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco first met because of the singer's mother, Mandy Teefey (Getty Images)
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco first met because of the singer's mother, Mandy Teefey (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Selena Gomez's mother, Mandy Teefey, reportedly set up her first meeting with fiance, Benny Blanco, the couple revealed in a conversation with Interview magazine's Mel Ottenberg, published on Valentine's Day.

It was the first joint interview of the 32-year-old singer-actress and 36-year-old music producer, who confirmed their relationship in 2023 and got engaged in December of the following year.

Selena Gomez's first meeting with Benny Blanco

Selena Gomez met Benny Blanco in her teens when her mother, who used to be her manager along with her stepfather Brian Teefey, set up a meeting between them to discuss music. Mandy and Brian managed Gomez's career for eight years as she became a star on the Disney channel, as per People

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco attend the Second Annual Rare Impact Fund Benefit Supporting Youth Mental Health at Nya Studios on October 24, 2024, in Los Angeles, California (Amy Sussman/Getty Images)
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco attend the Second Annual Rare Impact Fund Benefit Supporting Youth Mental Health at Nya Studios on October 24, 2024, in Los Angeles, California (Amy Sussman/Getty Images)

"I was around 16, 17," Gomez recalled of her first meeting, as Blanco added, "And we first had music come out in 2013 or something. Her mom set up a meeting between the two of us. This is right when I became big and she wasn't a singer yet."

"When she started putting out music, I was so into it. I feel like she was the original sad girl. Everyone was like (beatboxes) and she was like, (sings) ‘I just want to look good for you.’ (Laughs) I was drawn to it," he added. 

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco open up about developing feelings for each other

Selena Gomez also shared in the interview how she started to grow feelings for Benny Blanco while working on a song together, while the latter insisted that he initially had "no idea" of the development.

Gomez and Blanco collaborated on his 2019 song, 'I Can't Get Enough', before beginning a romantic relationship in 2023. 

Record producer Benny Blanco (L) and actor Selena Gomez (R) attend the game between the New York Knicks and the Philadelphia 76ers in Game Two of the Eastern Conference First Round Playoffs at Madison Square Garden on April 22, 2024 in New York City. NOTE TO USER: User expressly acknowledges and agrees that, by downloading and or using this photograph, User is consenting to the terms and conditions of the Getty Images License Agreement. (Photo by Sarah Stier/Getty Images)
Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez attend the game between the New York Knicks and the Philadelphia 76ers in Game Two of the Eastern Conference First Round Playoffs at Madison Square Garden on April 22, 2024, in New York City (Sarah Stier/Getty Images)

"It was really simple. We got in the studio to work on a song and we just talked; that’s how easy it was for me. I liked him before he liked me," shared Gomez. 

"I hadn’t thought about it at all. And then we were texting afterward and we decided to get dinner the next day. I guess she thought it was a date and I had no idea it was a date," commented Blanco. 

It took the record producer just two dates to figure out the 'Emelia Perez' star was the one for him. 

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco attend a basketball game between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Miami Heat at Crypto.com Arena on January 03, 2024 in Los Angeles, California (Photo by Allen Berezovsky/Getty Images)
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco attend a basketball game between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Miami Heat at Crypto.com Arena on January 3, 2024, in Los Angeles, California (Allen Berezovsky/Getty Images)

"You know when you think you met the right person, you’re like, ‘Oh my God.’ But it feels so different. The second we started hanging out, I was like, ‘This is my wife.’ I was telling my mom, ‘This is the girl I’m going to marry.’ She's my best friend," he said. 

Later in the interview, Blanco said he regretted not getting together with Gomez sooner, saying, "It’s like, ‘How did we not figure this out sooner?’ I'm 36 years old." 

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