'It's either going to be Kim or Cassie': Diddy's ex bodyguard claims rapper asked him for marriage advice

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Roger Bonds, a former bodyguard for Sean "Diddy" Combs, has recounted an intriguing conversation he had with the rapper regarding his potential marriage to Kim Porter or Cassie Ventura.

Speaking on Cam Capone News’ YouTube channel on October 30, Bonds revealed that Diddy sought his advice, saying, “It’s either gonna have to be Kim or Cassie. What you think I should do, yo?” as reported by Tribune.com.

Diddy's former bodyguard reveals rapper's marriage dilemma

Bonds admitted he leaned toward supporting Kim, citing her role as the mother of Diddy's children, stating, “'I think you should go with Kim'. The only reason I said that was because she had the kids at the end of the day, I said, oh, man, she got four kids, man. But I said, at the end of the day, you gotta go with who makes you happy.”

Bonds' comments shed light on Diddy's complex relationships, particularly with Kim Porter, with whom he shared four children: Quincy, Christian, Jessie, and D'Lila. While Quincy is biologically the son of Al B. Sure!, Diddy adopted him.

The bodyguard also touched on the tumultuous dynamics surrounding Cassie, alleging that Diddy had pocket-dialed her during their conversation. “I remember after that conversation, Cassie saw me, like, a week later, and she said, 'Bonds, you know I heard you, right?" Bonds recalled saying, "You heard what? I heard that conversation that you and Puff had.”

Moreover, he suggested that Cassie once had aspirations of marrying Diddy, saying, “I believe at one point Cassie wants to marry Puff, but Puff doesn't want to marry Cassie.”

Diddy’s former bodyguard claims he witnessed violent incident with Cassie in 2009

Roger Bonds allegedly witnessed a physical confrontation between the rapper and then-girlfriend Cassie Ventura during a 2009 party.

In the interview with Cam Capone News, Bonds claimed he stepped in after observing Diddy’s anger over Cassie speaking with another man, which, according to Bonds, led to an altercation.

“He just lost it… grabbed her and punched her, threw her on the floor,” Bonds recounted the scene, highlighting the chaos of the incident as other partygoers looked on.

Bonds explained that he intervened to separate the two, despite the potential personal risk. He described the atmosphere as tense, noting that even after de-escalating the situation at the party, the return to the hotel was filled with continued tension.