Jennifer Lopez has men running away as none wants her 'suitcase full of drama' after Ben Affleck divorce

According to a source, Jennifer Lopez wants to be 'treated as a queen' and has got the men in Hollywood 'running in other directions'
UPDATED NOV 6, 2024
Jennifer Lopez has reportedly got men running in other directions after divorce from Ben Affleck (Getty Images)
Jennifer Lopez has reportedly got men running in other directions after divorce from Ben Affleck (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Jennifer Lopez's alleged diva behavior has got the men in Hollywood “running in other directions," after her divorce from Ben Affleck.

Recently, a source close to the star shared with InTouch Weekly that not one of Hollywood’s available men wants to venture into a relationship with Lopez because of her allegedly toxic behavior.

SAN MARINO, CALIFORNIA - OCTOBER 13: (L-R) Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck attend the Ralph Lauren SS
Men are reportedly running away from Jennifer Lopez after Ben Affleck's divorce (Getty Images)

Claiming that the 55-year-old star is a “suitcase full of drama,” the source claimed that the ‘Hustlers’ star reportedly wants to be treated as a queen by her men.

Eligible men in Hollywood are ‘running in other directions’ from Jennifer Lopez

Claiming that eligible men in Hollywood are avoiding Jennifer Lopez, the source shared, “She’s made it clear that if you want to date her, you’d better be ready to treat her like a queen and deal with a suitcase full of drama.”

Even the ‘Shotgun Wedding’ star has previously admitted that she was hard to please, claiming, “I am somewhat of an expert, you could say.” She, however, clarified, “Not so much on marriage but on weddings.”

Lopez has been married four times and engaged twice more. The dissolution of her marriage with Ben Affleck marked her four times unlucky in the marriage scene. 

Nevertheless, per several reports, Lopez's alleged diva behavior led to the dissolution of her two-year-long marriage with the 'Argo' star.

While she has claimed that she has sworn off men after her fourth failed marriage, the insider was critical of that stance and claimed it was just a “self-defense mechanism” to save her reputation after their split. 

“Jennifer may say she needs time away from men, but that’s clearly a self-defense mechanism because the reality is that every man who sees her coming now runs in the other direction,” claimed the source. 

HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - DECEMBER 12: (L-R) Ben Affleck and  Jennifer Lopez attend the Los Angeles pr
Jennifer Lopez is not interested in dating after divorce from Ben Affleck (Getty Images)

They further added, “She’s aware of what’s happening, but she’s trying to control the narrative to make it look like she’s the victim — which is getting harder for anybody to swallow!”

“It’s not just Ben who’s happy to see Jen in their rearview mirror,” continued the source and added, “all of her exes are happy she’s out of their lives and regretting their time together.”

Further criticizing her aversion to looking for anybody else to date in the aftermath of her divorce, the source added, “It’s not like she has a choice.”

Jennifer Lopez still obsessed with Ben Affleck

The sorry state of the ‘Jenny From The Block’ singer’s dating life came just a few days after another insider revealed to InTouch Weekly that Jennifer Lopez is “still just as obsessed as ever” with her ex Ben Affleck, 52. 

The source dished, “She claims to be moving on from Ben, the truth is quite the opposite. She’s still totally obsessed with him and even has Google Alerts set up for his name, which is just beyond unhealthy.” 

“Any time she sees their mutual friends, she steers the conversation to Ben. She often finds excuses to swing by his house, dropping off items just to linger and see what he’s up to,” continued the source before adding, “And anytime she talks to Matt Damon, it’s always about Ben.”

They noted, “As much as she talks a good game about moving forward, the truth is she’s still just as obsessed as ever. The way she’s mourning this break-up you’d think they’d been married for 20 years, not two.”

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