Jennifer Lopez thankful to Ben Affleck as she navigates ‘one of the hardest years’ of her life amid divorce

After filing for divorce from Ben Affleck in August, Jennifer Lopez is focusing on healing and personal growth
PUBLISHED OCT 12, 2024
Jennifer Lopez expressed gratitude for time with Ben Affleck despite 'one of the hardest years' of her life (Photo by MEGA/GC Images)
Jennifer Lopez expressed gratitude for time with Ben Affleck despite 'one of the hardest years' of her life (Photo by MEGA/GC Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Jennifer Lopez is embracing a positive mindset despite facing one of the toughest years of her life. After filing for divorce from Ben Affleck in August, the singer and actress is focusing on healing and personal growth.

Sources close to Lopez revealed that while she was upset about the separation, she now feels it was a necessary step. "This has been one of the hardest years for Jennifer. She didn’t want to file for divorce. She just felt like she had no choice," a source shared with PEOPLE. 

Lopez listed April 26 as the date of their separation, following a summer spent largely apart from Affleck.

Jennifer Lopez reflects on challenges and gratitude following Ben Affleck divorce

HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - DECEMBER 12: (L-R) Ben Affleck and  Jennifer Lopez attend the Los Angeles pr
Insiders close to Jennifer Lopez indicate that, although she was distressed by the split, she believes it was an essential decision for her well-being (Getty Images)

Despite the challenges, Lopez remains grateful for the memories created with Affleck during their two years of marriage.

"She was very upset about it," the source added. "But true to her positive outlook on life, she's moving forward with optimism. Instead of feeling like she's fallen flat on her face, she sees it was meant to be. She's taking time for herself right now."

The source noted, "She knows she lives a privileged life in so many ways. She's very grateful for all the beautiful memories with Ben, but she's now focused on creating the best future for herself and her kids."

Recently, Lopez attended the Toronto International Film Festival to promote her upcoming film 'Unstoppable', produced by Affleck and Matt Damon. The couple has also been seen spending time together for the sake of their children.

Lopez shares 16-year-old twins Emme and Max with ex-husband Marc Anthony, while Affleck has three children -- Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12 — with ex-wife Jennifer Garner.

JLo's fond memories of Ben Affleck spark strong reactions online

VENICE, ITALY - SEPTEMBER 10: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez attend the red carpet of the movie
Jennifer Lopez's latest thoughts on her relationship with Ben Affleck have sparked a variety of reactions from fans and followers across social media (Getty Images)

Jennifer Lopez's recent reflections on her relationship with Ben Affleck have stirred a mix of responses from fans and followers online.

One user expressed skepticism about Lopez's attitude post-divorce, stating, "Looks like life without Ben hasn't brought any maturity or humility, still all about herself." Meanwhile, another user offered a more supportive take, commenting, "Good for her! I imagine that he is hard to live with."

One user wrote, "Congratulations! Love is love. But sometimes it does not work. True, you try it all thinking that your lives were going to be together and live a happy life."

A critical voice remarked, "It's only a matter of time before she disappoints again," while another user quipped, "Ben does not realize how lucky he is to be rid of her."

One more added, "There’s a lot of people who could tell her what 'hard' is like."

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