Kristin Davis recalls how she confronted 'very successful' actor who ghosted her after she lent him $5K

Kristin Davis recalls how she confronted 'very successful' actor who ghosted her after she lent him $5K
Kristin Davis offered a rare glimpse into her personal life in a podcast (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Kristin Davis recently opened up on a deeply personal experience during an episode of her podcast 'Are You a Charlotte?'

Speaking with guest Sarah Wynter, Davis recounted a time when she lent $5,000 to a then-struggling actor she was dating, only to be ghosted shortly afterward.


 
 
 
 
 
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Kristin Davis reveals her experience of being ghosted

The incident, which took place before Kristin Davis' rise to fame on 'Sex and the City', left a lasting impact on her outlook on relationships and financial generosity.

“I did one time date this out-of-work actor,” Davis shared.

“He was very talented, but at the time, I had money because I’d been working. I went to his house, and it was covered in unpaid bills, including electricity shut-off notices,” she recalled.

Davis described how the situation escalated after the actor wrecked his motorcycle, leaving him unable to attend auditions. Feeling compassionate, she offered to help.


NEW YORK, NY - OCTOBER 21: Kristin Davis is seen on the set of
Kristin Davis is seen on the set of 'And Just Like That...' on October 21, 2024, in New York City (Jose Perez/Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)

“I said, ‘Can I lend you some money?’ It was a horrible mistake,” she admitted.

Kristin Davis' generosity turned sour

Kristin Davis explained how the act of lending money altered their relationship dynamic.

“It changed the dynamic in a really horrible way,” she reflected, adding, “Shortly after lending him the $5,000, he stopped calling me."

Confused and upset, Davis eventually decided to confront him directly.

“I went to his apartment and knocked on his door. I could hear his dog inside, but no one answered,” she recalled.

The actor later called her to confirm her visit, leaving Davis feeling embarrassed.


VENICE, CALIFORNIA - NOVEMBER 14: Kristin Davis attends the Launch of Highbrow Hippie Haircare & Wellness at Gjelina on November 14, 2024 in Venice, California. (Photo by Tiffany Rose/Getty Images for Highbrow Hippie Haircare & Wellness)
Kristin Davis attends the Launch of Highbrow Hippie Haircare & Wellness at Gjelina on November 14, 2024, in Venice, California (Getty Images)

“I felt messy, like I was doing something wrong,” she confessed.

Kristin Davis opens up on hard lessons and advice

During the candid conversation, both Kristin Davis and Sarah Wynter agreed on the perils of mixing finances with romantic relationships.

“Do not lend money to someone you’re dating. It doesn’t end well. It really irked me," Davis advised listeners.

Wynter encouraged Davis to seek closure by revisiting the actor, joking she should ask for the money back “with interest.”

However, Davis laughed off at the suggestion, noting the actor now lives “out in the country with some children.”

Despite the embarrassment and frustration, Davis acknowledged the incident as a learning experience.

Kristin Davis attends the
Kristin Davis attends the 'And Just Like That…It's Been 25 Years, A Sex And The City Experience Presented By Max' on June 8, 2023, in New York City (Getty Images)

“You live and you learn. I can’t say that was the last time I did it. I think the next time was the last time," she said.

Inside Kristin Davis’ life and career

Kristin Davis has had a decorated career in television, with iconic roles in 'Melrose Place' and 'Sex and the City.'

Despite high-profile relationships, including romances with Aaron Sorkin, Alec Baldwin, and Rick Fox, Davis has never been married.


NEW YORK, NY - SEPTEMBER 25: Kristin Davis is seen at the
Kristin Davis is seen at the 'And Just Like That' set in Downtown, Manhattan, on September 25, 2024, in New York City (Jose Perez/Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)

In 2011, she adopted her daughter, Gemma Rose, and has since embraced single motherhood, according to the New York Post.

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