Lily Allen’s messy split from 'cheating' husband David Harbour has been hard for her two daughters

The English pop star is the mother of two daughters — Marnie Rose and Ethel Mary — whom she shares with her ex-husband Sam Cooper
PUBLISHED FEB 5, 2025
Lilly Allen and David Harbour's marriage ended after over four years of togetherness (Getty Images)
Lilly Allen and David Harbour's marriage ended after over four years of togetherness (Getty Images)

NEW YORK CITY, NEW YORK: The reported separation of Lily Allen and her husband David Harbour has not just been hard for the English pop star but also for her two children.

Allen is the mother of two daughters — Marnie Rose, 12, and Ethel Mary, 13 — whom she shares with her ex-husband Sam Cooper. The two had been married from 2011 to 2018.

But now her second marriage has also come to an end after over four years of togetherness. The union reportedly collapsed after she found Harbour's secret profile on the celebrity dating app Raya.

Now, a tipster told PEOPLE, “She's devastated and not in a good place.”

Lily Allen attends the Reimagining The Future Gala Dinner for Lewis Hamilton's Charitable Foundation, Mission 44 at The Design Museum on November 06, 2024 in London, England. (Photo by Shane Anthony Sinclair/Getty Images for Mission 44)
Lily Allen attends the Reimagining The Future Gala Dinner for Lewis Hamilton's Charitable Foundation, Mission 44 at The Design Museum on November 6, 2024 in London, England (Shane Anthony Sinclair/Getty Images for Mission 44)

Lily Allen’s daughters are not in good phase amid mom’s split from David Harbour


 
 
 
 
 
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They continued that “it’s been a bad start to the new year, but Lily is tough. She's very good at prioritizing herself when she has to.”

However, regarding the 39-year-old’s daughters, the tipster added that the split from Harbour has “been very hard for her girls” as well.

The children seemed to be quite close to Harbour, who himself in 2021 revealed that a conversation with them resulted in him getting married to the author.


 
 
 
 
 
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David Harbour married Lily Allen after listening to her daughters’ conversation



 

He shared on ‘Jimmy Kimmel Live!’, as per PEOPLE, “The little one was riding along and she was going like, 'David, dad, David, dad.' Because the D got her confused. And the older one got very upset with that, which I understand. She was like, 'He's not our dad! He's not our dad!’

He continued, “And then the younger one was like, 'Well what is he? He's kind of our dad.' She's like, 'No he's not, he's our stepdad.' And she goes, 'What is he?' And she goes, 'He's just some guy in our lives!’”

The ‘Violent Night’ star then mentioned that after that he “was like, 'I need to marry this woman.’ Because the emotional fallout …”

Lily Allen, wearing CHANEL, and David Harbour, wearing CHANEL watch, attend the CHANEL Tribeca Festival Artists Dinner at The Odeon on June 10, 2024 in New York City. (Photo by Sean Zanni/WireImage)
Lily Allen, wearing CHANEL, and David Harbour, wearing CHANEL watch, attend the CHANEL Tribeca Festival Artists Dinner at The Odeon on June 10, 2024 in New York City (Sean Zanni/WireImage)

David Harbour knew on third date he wanted to marry Lily Allen

Also, in 2022, Harbour told British GQ that he found Allen an “extraordinary person” and that’s why he decided to marry her.

The ‘Stranger Things’ star said, “I remember the exact moment. It was our third date. I was in this phase where I was like, 'I'm just going to be brutally honest about everything,' because why lie? And I told her something about my life, about my beliefs.”

“It would take a really extraordinary person to be accepting of the things that I said. And I remember thinking: Wow, that's somebody I want to be around,” he added.

Lily Allen played 'detective' to find David Harbour's alleged cheating

As per an earlier report, the 'Dreamland' actress herself joined Raya to find out the truth of her husband.

A mole disclosed, "Lily was looking for women that were on Raya and cross-referencing them with women David follows on Instagram to try to figure out who he was seeing."

"Lily only rejoined Raya to try to figure out whether he was seeing someone. Lily has never even looked at anyone since she met David. She is devastated," another insider added, as per Daily Mail.

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