Melania Trump reveals ‘disagreements’ with stepchildren, says she’s not trying to ‘replace their mothers’

NEW YORK CITY, NEW YORK: In her newly released memoir, 'Melania', former first lady Melania Trump has shed light on the complexities of her blended family, revealing details of her relationship with her four stepchildren and making it clear that she has never tried to replace their mothers.

At 54, Melania, the wife of former president Donald Trump, has lived much of her life in the public eye, but her memoir, launched on Tuesday, October 8, offers rare insight into the personal dynamics of the Trump family.

Specifically, Melania addresses how she navigated the challenges of being a stepmother to Trump's four children—Donald Trump Jr., 46; Ivanka Trump, 42; Eric Trump, 40; and Tiffany Trump, 30—whom he shares with his ex-wives, Ivana Trump and Marla Maples.

Melania Trump reflects on her stepmother role

When Melania Trump married Donald Trump in January 2005, she joined a well-established family unit.

The couple later welcomed their own son, Barron Trump, in 2006, but Melania found herself stepping into a role that many had speculated was fraught with tension. Over the years, rumors of rifts between her and Trump’s children—particularly Ivanka—dominated tabloids and fueled public curiosity.

“Stepping into a marriage with Donald, I found myself navigating the intricate dynamics of his big family,” she writes in her memoir.

“It demanded flexibility and openness, but each moment was a chance to connect, learn, and grow in this new environment.”

Melania Trump reveals her approach to parenting

Melania Trump explains that by the time she married Donald Trump, his children were already "more independent."

Tiffany, who was still in her "formative years," was living with her mother in California.

"My approach to building relationships with Donald's children has always been grounded in love and respect," Melania claimed.

"I recognize their individuality, understanding that, as their stepmother, my role is not to replace their mothers but to nurture a supportive and amicable connection. This perspective has enabled me to cultivate meaningful relationships with each child in a unique way."

Melania Trump admits to clashes with stepchildren but stresses importance of respect

While former first lady Melania Trump stresses her respect for her stepchildren, she admits that disagreements have arisen over the years—something she sees as a normal part of any relationship.

“While I may not agree with every opinion or choice expressed by Donald’s grown children, nor do I align with all of Donald’s decisions, I acknowledge that different viewpoints are a natural aspect of human relationships,” she writes.

Despite any differences, Melania says she has always aimed to create a space where each family member feels free to express themselves without fear of judgment. “It is essential to remember that each person is deserving of respect and understanding, regardless of disagreements,” she explains.

Rather than imposing her views or criticizing, she aimed to be a “steady presence” for the children—someone they could rely on.

Throughout her memoir, Melania emphasizes the importance of communication in her relationships, both as a stepmother and a wife.

She shares a personal mantra that she follows in her family life: “Don’t control, communicate!”

Melania writes, “I understand that being possessive is not conducive to a healthy family dynamic. Each member requires their own space, and I have made it a priority to respect that need.”