Shanna Moakler shades ex Travis Barker's 'controlling personality' as she admits they used to compete over who was the better parent

Shanna Moakler recently opened up about navigating parenting with her ex-husband, Travis Barker, with whom she shares two children, Landon and Alabama
UPDATED JUN 2, 2024
Shanna Moakler and Travis Barker share two children (Getty Images)
Shanna Moakler and Travis Barker share two children (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Shanna Moakler opened up about the time when she used to have "competition" with her former husband Travis Barker over co-parenting their two children, Landon and Alabama Barker, during a recent interview on Jeff Lewis' SiriusXM show. 

The Miss USA 1995 runner-up and the Blink-182 drummer tied the knot in 2004. They welcomed their son Landon in 2003 and daughter Alabama in 2005. 

Before their divorce in 2008, Shanna and Travis also cared for the 'Hollywood Exes' star's first daughter, Atiana De La Hoya, whom she shares with Oscar De La Hoya. 

LOS ANGELES, CA - FEBRUARY 02:  Musician Travis Barker (L) and Shanna Moakler attend the launch of W
Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler were married from 2004 to 2008 (Getty Images)

Shanna Moakler said she gave up competing with Travis Barker

During her interview with Jeff, Shanna shared that though she and Travis competed amongst themselves when it came to parenting, she gave up "a long time ago," as per Hollywood Life.

The ‘Pacific Blue’ star expressed, "But I gave up, I was never really trying to compete. I gave that up a long time ago… I was like, 'You win'. Like you’re the winner. It is a topic that I don’t think a lot of people have really scratched the surface on and really have a clear understanding and it happens to both men and women. Both mothers and fathers."



 

She acknowledge that it was difficult for her to compete with Travis as he is a "very powerful famous person."

At one point, Shanna appeared to shade her ex-husband as she remarked, "I think it really comes from like when you’re dealing with like a narcissist or you’re dealing with a controlling personality."

She, nevertheless, admitted that though they are no longer friends, they co-parent peacefully, explaining, “We co-parent, you know if there's any issues with our kids… that’s one thing we’ll communicate but otherwise, we don’t really have a friendship."

"At the end of the day, whether the public and the media can say whatever they want to say about me as a person or decisions I’ve made, my relationships when it comes to me as a mother I don’t give five f***ks what anyone says or thinks. I only care about my children, my relationship with my children," added Shanna.

In the interview, she gushed about Travis and Kourtney Kardashian's son, Rocky, who was born in November 2023, saying, "I’m happy for him. He’s in a good place. The kids love the new baby Rocky… You know my daughter’s obsessed with him and sends me cute pictures and stuff."

CALABASAS, CALIFORNIA - OCTOBER 13: Travis Barker and Kourtney Kardashian Attend the Ribbon Cutting
Travis Barker and Kourtney Kardashian tied the knot in 2022 following their very public relationship (Getty Images)

Shanna Moakler said she faced some ‘parental alienation’ with Travis Barker

This is, however, not the first time that Shanna has talked about her competition with Barker regarding co-parenting.

During her appearance on Bunnie XO's ‘Dumb Blonde’ podcast, the actress and model shared, "When Travis got with Kourtney, there was some parental alienation going on there, where Travis — even when we weren't together — always wanted to be the 'super dad,'" before adding, "I'm like, 'Bro, you win.' Like you're the winner here. You have all the money."

Alabama and Landon Barker (@alabamaluellabarker, @landonasherbarker/Instagram)
Shanna Moakler and Travis Barker share two children, Alabama and Landon Barker (@alabamaluellabarker, @landonasherbarker/Instagram)

She added that Landon and Alabama got enamored with the "glitter and fame" of the Kardashian lifestyle, as per PEOPLE Magazine.

"They’re buying them Prada, and they’re meeting Kanye [West]. I can’t give them that. I don’t have access to that. My house isn’t a mansion like Travis'," claimed Shanna. 

MORE STORIES

The post Khloe Kardashian liked featured Charlie Kirk speaking with a fan at an event about his devout Christian faith
Sep 13, 2025
Whitney Cummings sparked widespread outrage after posting a controversial tweet about the killing of conservative activist Charlie Kirk
Sep 13, 2025
Prince Harry was spotted entering King Charles’s London residence, months after saying his father had ignored his calls
Sep 11, 2025
Rosie O'Donnell said Ellen DeGeneres’ friendship denial hurt so much she printed T-shirts for her staff reading, 'I don’t know Rosie, we’re not friends'
Sep 10, 2025
A post alleged that Karoline Leavitt called Patti LaBelle 'just a singer,' leading LaBelle to deliver a seven-word response that froze the studio
Sep 10, 2025
Jennifer Lopez feels free channeling emotions into music, but Ben Affleck is embarrassed and sees it as crossing a line, according to the source
Sep 9, 2025
Howard Stern added that he missed last week’s show due to illness, not contract talks, and addressed rumors of being fired from his own show
Sep 9, 2025
Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement in August 2025 triggered a wave of pregnancy chatter after an ultrasound photo went viral
Sep 9, 2025
Ed Sheeran, 34, revealed that he was leaving Suffolk with his wife Cherry Seaborn and their two daughters, Lyra and Jupiter
Sep 9, 2025
From Ice Spice’s chaotic corset to Paris Hilton’s flame dress, see the celebs who landed on the worst-dressed list at the 2025 VMAs
Sep 8, 2025