Drew Barrymore says having daughters humbled her: 'I was put on this planet to raise girls'

Drew Barrymore recalled how discovering she was having daughters made her want to create a better childhood for them than she had herself
PUBLISHED JAN 29, 2025
Drew Barrymore opened up on motherhood and how raising daughters transformed her life (Getty Images)
Drew Barrymore opened up on motherhood and how raising daughters transformed her life (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Drew Barrymore's life changed completely when she became a mother.

The actress, 49, talked about how raising her two daughters shifted her perspective and gave her a newfound purpose.


 
 
 
 
 
View this post on Instagram
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

A post shared by The Late Show (@colbertlateshow)


 

Drew Barrymore says her daughters are 'my North Star, my compass'

During a Wednesday, January 29, appearance on 'The Late Show with Stephen Colbert', Drew Barrymore shared insights into her journey as a mother to Olive, 12, and Frankie, 10, whom she shares with her ex-husband Will Kopelman.

"They’re really, really good. Every day is different. Every hour is different. They’re my North Star, my compass," Barrymore said.



 

"I love that in the life that I got to live before I knew them, my priorities were different. And ever since I came into the world, I understand what the purpose of my life is. It’s wild," she said.

The 'Charlie's Angels' star recalled how discovering she was having daughters made her want to create a better childhood for them than she had herself.

"I found out I was having a daughter with Olive, and I thought, ‘Oh right, ok karmically that makes sense.’ There’s a lot of, ‘Ok, I’m having a girl,'" Barrymore said.


 
 
 
 
 
View this post on Instagram
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

A post shared by Drew Barrymore (@drewbarrymore)


 

Drew Barrymore recalls a humbling moment with her second daughter

The actress shared that the arrival of her second daughter, Frankie, was a transformative experience.

"When I found out I was having Frankie, my second daughter, it humbled me in a way that I’ve never known, and I’ll never forget the moment because I realized I was put on this planet to raise girls," she said, People reported. 

NEW YORK, NEW YORK - MAY 05: Drew Barrymore attends Variety's 2022 Power Of Women: New York Event Pr
Drew Barrymore attends Variety's 2022 Power Of Women: New York Event Presented By Lifetime at The Glasshouse on May 5, 2022, in New York City (Getty Images) 

"And that everything in my life was captured and a butterfly net to try and get this right," the 'Firestarter' actress said.

Reflecting on her own upbringing, Drew Barrymore admitted she wanted to do things differently for her children.

"If you don’t grow up in a perfect way with a perfect family, you fear the blueprint and you go, I want to do things differently. I felt unconfident, like this was the stakes of my life, and it took a few years, honestly, to have that confidence," she said.

Although she initially struggled with parenting, Barrymore described the experience as fulfilling. "It’s humorous and it’s delicious and it’s great. And they’re my everything," she said.

Steven Spielberg calls Drew Barrymore his 'training wheels for parenthood'

Drew Barrymore also spoke about her close relationship with director Steven Spielberg, whom she described as a "big father figure" in her life.

Spielberg, who directed her in 'ET the Extra-Terrestrial', recently revealed that working with Barrymore and the other child actors on the 1982 film changed his life, according to People.

Steven Spielberg attends the Music by John Williams AFI Fest Opening Night Premiere at TCL Chinese Theatre in Hollywood, California on October 23, 2024. (Cover Image Source: Getty Images for Disney | Photo by Jesse Grant)
Steven Spielberg attends the Music by John Williams AFI Fest Opening Night Premiere at TCL Chinese Theatre in Hollywood, California, on October 23, 2024 (Getty Images for Disney/Jesse Grant)

"I was obsessed with telling stories, but making E.T. made me want to be a father for the first time. I never even thought about that until ET," Spielberg said during a panel at the TCM Classic Film Festival in New York City.

Barrymore reacted to his comments on the show, expressing relief that she had not discouraged Spielberg from wanting to be a parent. "He always called me his training wheels for parenthood," she said.


 
 
 
 
 
View this post on Instagram
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

A post shared by Drew Barrymore (@drewbarrymore)


 

"I spent so much time with him, and he really took me under his wing," Barrymore said.

"He was someone who was there and who I believed in, and I could call, and I would spend weekends at his house, and he was always showing movies. He was such a good father figure. I knew he was going to be the best father," the 'Grey Gardens' star said.

MORE STORIES

The post Khloe Kardashian liked featured Charlie Kirk speaking with a fan at an event about his devout Christian faith
Sep 13, 2025
Whitney Cummings sparked widespread outrage after posting a controversial tweet about the killing of conservative activist Charlie Kirk
Sep 13, 2025
Prince Harry was spotted entering King Charles’s London residence, months after saying his father had ignored his calls
Sep 11, 2025
Rosie O'Donnell said Ellen DeGeneres’ friendship denial hurt so much she printed T-shirts for her staff reading, 'I don’t know Rosie, we’re not friends'
Sep 10, 2025
A post alleged that Karoline Leavitt called Patti LaBelle 'just a singer,' leading LaBelle to deliver a seven-word response that froze the studio
Sep 10, 2025
Jennifer Lopez feels free channeling emotions into music, but Ben Affleck is embarrassed and sees it as crossing a line, according to the source
Sep 9, 2025
Howard Stern added that he missed last week’s show due to illness, not contract talks, and addressed rumors of being fired from his own show
Sep 9, 2025
Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement in August 2025 triggered a wave of pregnancy chatter after an ultrasound photo went viral
Sep 9, 2025
Ed Sheeran, 34, revealed that he was leaving Suffolk with his wife Cherry Seaborn and their two daughters, Lyra and Jupiter
Sep 9, 2025
From Ice Spice’s chaotic corset to Paris Hilton’s flame dress, see the celebs who landed on the worst-dressed list at the 2025 VMAs
Sep 8, 2025