Erika Kirk shares daughter's touching message for Charlie on his birthday: 'Eat a cupcake'

Erika Kirk also noted how their youngest son, though unable to speak, showed love by becoming fully potty trained at 16 months
PUBLISHED OCT 15, 2025
Erika Kirk accepted the Presidential Medal of Honour on behalf of her husband, Charlie Kirk (Getty Images)
Erika Kirk accepted the Presidential Medal of Honour on behalf of her husband, Charlie Kirk (Getty Images)

WASHINGTON, DC: Erika Kirk, the widow of Turning Point USA founder Charlie Kirk, read out a heartbreakingly innocent birthday message their little girl had for her late father.

The emotional tribute took place on Tuesday night, October 14, during a solemn ceremony where President Donald Trump posthumously awarded Kirk the Presidential Medal of Freedom.

U.S. President Donald Trump posthumously awards the Presidential Medal of Freedom to late conservative activist Charlie Kirk as he presents the Medal to his wife Erika Kirk (L) during a ceremony in the Rose Garden of the White House on October 14, 2025 in Washington, DC. Today marks the National Day of Remembrance for Charlie Kirk who was shot and killed on September 10th at Utah Valley University. (Photo by Kevin Dietsch/Getty Images)
US President Donald Trump posthumously awards the Presidential Medal of Freedom to late conservative activist Charlie Kirk as he presents the Medal to his wife Erika Kirk (L) during a ceremony in the Rose Garden of the White House on October 14, 2025 in Washington, DC (Kevin Dietsch/Getty Images)

Charlie Kirk's daughter pens a letter to him

It was supposed to be a night celebrating Charlie Kirk. Taking the stage during the Washington ceremony, Erika spoke to a crowd of supporters who once rallied behind her husband’s conservative mission.



 

“Before I close, I’ll share with you that I asked our daughter what she would like to say to daddy for his birthday,” Erika said. “She said, ‘Happy birthday, daddy. I want to give you a stuffed animal. I want you to eat a cupcake with ice cream. And I want you to go have a birthday surprise. I love you,’ is what she said.”

Erika Kirk, wife of late conservative activist Charlie Kirk, becomes emotional as she speaks after U.S. President Donald Trump (L) posthumously awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom to Charlie Kirk during a ceremony in the Rose Garden of the White House on October 14, 2025 in Washington, DC. Today marks the National Day of Remembrance for Charlie Kirk who was shot and killed on September 10th at Utah Valley University. (Photo by Alex Wong/Getty Images)
Erika Kirk, wife of late conservative activist Charlie Kirk, becomes emotional as she speaks after U.S. President Donald Trump (L) posthumously awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom to Charlie Kirk during a ceremony in the Rose Garden of the White House on October 14, 2025 in Washington, DC (Alex Wong/Getty Images)

Erika noted how their youngest child was too small to speak, but found his own way to show love. “While our son is precious, he can’t yet speak. In classic Kirk family fashion, his actions spoke louder than his words. His gift to you, Charlie, and myself, for that matter, was deciding to become the man of the house and be fully potty trained at 16 months,” she said with a bittersweet laugh.

“But Charlie, baby, I know that you’re celebrating in heaven today. But, gosh, I miss you. We miss you. And we love you. And we promise we’ll make you proud," she added.

Erika reminded everyone that the medal and the movement her husband built were bigger than one man. She urged the crowd to “be the embodiment of this medal” and “stand courageously in the truth.”

“Charlie’s life was proof that freedom is not a theory. It’s a testimony. He showed us that liberty begins not in the halls of power, but in the heart of a man surrendered to God," she said.

“So today, as we honor Charlie with this incredible Presidential Medal of Freedom on his birthday, I stand here with tears and just a humbled heart and spirit because his story reminds us all that to live free is the greatest gift. But to die free is the greatest victory. Happy birthday, my Charlie. Happy Freedom Day," Erika concluded.

Charlie Kirk's death

The outspoken conservative firebrand known for hosting debates about abortion, free speech, and gender ideology was shot and killed on September 10 while debating students at Utah Valley University in Orem, Utah.

Charlie Kirk appears at Utah Valley University on September 10, 2025 in Orem, Utah. Kirk, founder of Turning Point USA, was speaking at his
Charlie Kirk appears at Utah Valley University on September 10, 2025, in Orem, Utah (Trent Nelson/The Salt Lake Tribune/Getty Images)

Videos of the shocking murder spread online within hours, showing the moment a single gunshot rang out mid-debate and struck Kirk as horrified students screamed.

Both Kirk’s supporters and his critics were stunned. After all, the 31-year-old had built Turning Point USA into one of the most influential conservative youth movements in America.

Just 11 days later, on September 21, thousands packed into Arizona’s State Farm Stadium for a remembrance service honoring the late TPUSA founder.

The memorial service is held for political activist Charlie Kirk at State Farm Stadium on September 21, 2025 in Glendale, Arizona. Kirk, the CEO and co-founder of Turning Point USA, was shot and killed on September 10th while speaking at an event during his
The memorial service is held for political activist Charlie Kirk at State Farm Stadium on September 21, 2025 in Glendale, Arizona (Joe Raedle/Getty Images)

Authorities moved fast following the tragedy. After a nearly two-day manhunt involving federal and local agencies, 22-year-old Tyler Robinson was arrested and charged with Kirk’s murder.

Robinson made his first court appearance on September 16.

He is facing a laundry list of charges, including one count of aggravated murder, one count of felony discharge of a firearm causing serious bodily injury, two counts of obstruction of justice for hiding the rifle and discarding clothing, two counts of witness tampering for instructing a roommate to delete texts, and one count of committing a violent offense in front of children.

SPANISH FORK, UTAH - SEPTEMBER 16: In this handout video screen grab provided by the Utah State Courts, Tyler James Robinson attends a virtual court hearing from Utah County Jail on September 16, 2025 in Spanish Fork, Utah. Tyler Robinson is accused of fatally shooting Charlie Kirk, CEO and co-founder of Turning Point USA, while he was speaking at an event for his
In this handout video screen grab provided by the Utah State Courts, Tyler James Robinson attends a virtual court hearing from Utah County Jail on September 16, 2025, in Spanish Fork, Utah (Utah State Courts via Getty Images)

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