Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck split could be 'most expensive exercise in closure ever

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck split could be 'most expensive exercise in closure ever
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are reportedly embarking on a multi-million dollar 'exercise in closure', driven by their unresolved feelings from the past (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Close associates of the famous couple have described their recent split as the most costly "exercise in closure" ever. For context, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez first became romantically involved in 2004, getting engaged before calling it off. 

Decades later, Lopez and Affleck rekindled their relationship in 2022. However, after just two years of marriage, the couple is expected to officially part ways by the end of the summer.

Friend reveals how Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck envisioned their wedding

WESTWOOD, CA - JULY 27:   Actress Jennifer Lopez and actor Ben Affleck attend the premiere of Revolu
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck rekindled their romance in 2022 which culminated in a lavish ceremony at Affleck’s $8 million Georgia estate (Getty Images)

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are embarking on a multi-million dollar "exercise in closure," driven by their unresolved feelings from the past, according to sources. 

A friend close to the couple shared on Page Six, "They got caught up in the moment. Jennifer had wanted this wedding — the gowns, the friends, all the trappings and trimmings — for decades,"

Their rekindled romance in 2022 culminated in a lavish ceremony at Affleck’s $8 million Georgia estate, where Lopez stunned in three Ralph Lauren gowns. 

The friend noted that both Affleck and Lopez were nostalgic, trying to fulfill a dream from twenty years ago. Now, they’ve resolved their past issues and realized that their relationship isn't meant to last. 

"They’ve turned the page on all the unfinished business of 20-plus years ago. They’ve seen things through to the end — and they know for sure now that they are not built for the long haul," the friend added. "No further unanswered questions. They’ve seen all they need to see, and it’s over. In the end, it’s gonna be the most elaborate and expensive exercise in closure ever."

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck moved on with future plans

In May, a source said that Ben Affleck felt as though the past two years had been a "fever dream" and joked, "If there was a way to divorce on grounds of temporary insanity, he would. He feels like the last two years was just a fever dream …"

The couple has put their $68 million Beverly Hills home up for sale, and Affleck has already purchased a $20 million house in Brentwood, closer to his three children and ex-wife, Jennifer Garner. 

Meanwhile, Lopez has been house-hunting in Los Angeles and spent the past month in the Hamptons. "Ben’s found his new home, Jen’s about to select hers. It’s absolutely done and there is zero interest, inclination or reason to turn back," the friend said. 

Affleck did not attend Lopez’s 55th birthday celebration in the Hamptons, which featured a 'Bridgerton'-themed party and a brunch. “Her summer isn’t exactly what she originally had planned, but she’s making the best of it. She’s always grateful for family time,” a source told People.

LOS ANGELES, CA - MAY 11:  (FILE PHOTO) Actor Ben Affleck (L) and his fiance actress/singer Jennifer
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez first became romantically involved in 2004, getting engaged before calling it off  (Getty Images)

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's marital woes spark discussion online

Several netizens quickly took to Facebook to comment on claims from Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's close associates, who described the couple's marriage ending as an "expensive exercise in closure."

One user wrote, "It´s very sad, it was a great love, and now a divorce, when they are divided, they won´t do well."

Another claimed, "They did not even try to work hard on their marriage...anyways, Ben is a deep depressed guy. JLo deserves better." A user shared, "2nd mid life crisis for him. Lord have mercy."

One individual slammed, "If it didn’t work in the past and they learned nothing from that, it wouldn’t work now." The other added, "Dude loses money in gambling and divorces and just goes back for more."

Someone else blamed Ben Affleck, "I’m sure it was not Ben who wanted the big wedding in Georgia and a second wedding. He was a fool that he’d let her talk him into it. The biggest mistake of Ben’s life is marrying JLo - and he is paying for his mistake. Maybe he’ll learn now that lust is not the same as love."

One individual shared, " Every photo of them shows the unhappy in Ben's eyes... And Jens in love with being in love she'll find another dude for awhile ...soon enough."

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