Kate Middleton laid down certain ‘terms’ before Queen Elizabeth II upon joining royal family, claims book

Kate Middleton made it clear her family will always be her priority
UPDATED JUL 31, 2024
Kate Middleton boldly laid down her conditions before the late Queen Elizabeth II back in 2015 (Paul Archuleta/Getty Images)
Kate Middleton boldly laid down her conditions before the late Queen Elizabeth II back in 2015 (Paul Archuleta/Getty Images)

WINDSOR CASTLE, BERKSHIRE: Kate Middleton had laid some non-negotiable terms while stepping into her royal role alongside Prince William, as outlined in the biography 'Catherine, the Princess of Wales' by Robert Jobson. The book will hit the stands on August 6, 2024.

Kate married Prince William, the heir to the British throne, at Westminster Abbey in London on April 29, 2011. Upon joining the royal family, she not only adhered to traditions but also set her own terms.

The biography claims the Princess of Wales laid her "terms" directly before Queen Elizabeth II back in 2015, when she was pregnant with Charlotte.

LEICESTER, ENGLAND - MARCH 08:  Queen Elizabeth II (R) and Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge (L) watch
Kate Middleton had laid down her 'terms' before Queen Elizabeth II (Getty Images)

Book reveals Kate Middleton set terms for balancing family and royal duties

Robert Jobson revealed that Kate Middleton made it clear she wouldn’t be boxed into specific royal duties, the US Weekly reports.

According to the book, "Her ‘terms’ were in fact presented to Queen Elizabeth and Prince Charles…She was clear from the outset that she would not be pigeon-holed into carrying out particular duties…her priority, she emphasized, would always be her family."

Middleton is known for her hands-on parenting of Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis. 

Beyond her extensive royal duties, she has also played a pivotal role in shaping the monarchy’s modern-day operations.

“Kate will be very important in shaping the monarchy into an institution that’s relevant to modern people and not just looking over its shoulder at past traditions,” Jobson wrote.

NOTTINGHAM, ENGLAND - JUNE 13:  Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge and Queen Elizabeth II watch part of
Kate Middleton had made it clear to Queen Elizabeth II that family comes first for her (Getty Images)

He also stated, “She’s a really stylish, incredibly graceful and beautiful lady, but she’s got a steely core, and that enables her to say what she believes. She’s not afraid of giving her input and she influences a lot of people that make the decisions.”

Middleton is currently taking a break from royal duties as she undergoes preventative chemotherapy. Despite this, she has made a few public appearances this summer, including a notable one at the Wimbledon men’s finals.

Her influence on the monarchy remains significant, even as she navigates this challenging time.

Kate Middleton balances cancer treatment and looking after her children

Kate Middleton, Princess of Wales, made a dazzling return to Wimbledon on July 14, stepping into the Royal Box at Centre Court to a standing ovation.

Wearing an elegant purple Safiyaa dress, Kate was all smiles as she and her 9-year-old daughter, Princess Charlotte, waved to fans and shared sweet giggles throughout the match.

Meanwhile, 700 miles away at Berlin's Olympiastadion, Prince William and their 11-year-old son, Prince George, were caught up in the excitement of the UEFA Euro 2024 final between England and Spain.

LONDON, ENGLAND - JULY 14: Princess Charlotte of Wales and Catherine, Princess of Wales court-side of Centre Court during the men's final on day fourteen of the Wimbledon Tennis Championships at the All England Lawn Tennis and Croquet Club on July 14, 2024 in London, England. (Photo by Karwai Tang/WireImage)
Princess Charlotte and Kate Middleton during the men's final of the Wimbledon Tennis Championships at the All England Lawn Tennis and Croquet Club on July 14, 2024 in London, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)

Kate Middleton and Prince William, both 42, are juggling a lot these days as Kate has been undergoing cancer treatment since February. Meanwhile, William has been busy with his royal duties and stepping in for his ailing father, King Charles III, who is also battling cancer.

Despite these challenges, the Prince and Princess of Wales prioritize their children's happiness above all else.

LONDON, ENGLAND - JUNE 02:  (L-R) Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall, Prince Charles, Prince of Wales, Que
Kate Middleton and Prince William seen with Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall, Prince Charles, Queen Elizabeth II, Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis (Getty Images)

Putting family first is a core principle for William and Kate, and they have been seamlessly blending their royal duties with their commitment to their 13-year marriage and their children's upbringing.

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