Prince Harry and Meghan Markle excluded from Christmas at Sandringham after last attending it 6 years ago

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle excluded from Christmas at Sandringham after last attending it 6 years ago
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle will not be attending the royal family's Christmas gathering at Sandringham this year (Eric Charbonneau/Archewell Foundation via Getty Images)

LONDON, ENGLAND: Prince Harry and Meghan Markle will not be attending the royal family’s traditional Christmas gathering at Sandringham this year.

According to a source speaking with People, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have not received an invitation to join the royal festivities. The couple, who currently reside in the US, have not participated in the Sandringham holiday celebrations since 2018, the year they married.

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s exclusion from Christmas at Sandringham follows tensions with family

The exclusion from this year’s Christmas gathering follows a series of strained interactions with the royal family. Earlier in June, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle were also left out of the annual Trooping the Colour event marking King Charles’ birthday.

Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex attend the pre-closing ceremony of the Invictus Games Düsseldorf 2023 at Merkur Spiel-Arena on September 16, 2023 in Duesseldorf, Germany. (Photo by Chris Jackson/Getty Images for the Invictus Games Foundation)
Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex attend the pre-closing ceremony of the Invictus Games Düsseldorf 2023 at Merkur Spiel-Arena on September 16, 2023, in Duesseldorf, Germany (Chris Jackson/Getty Images for the Invictus Games Foundation)

The ongoing tensions between Harry, his father King Charles, and his brother Prince William have been a prominent theme in recent years, especially after Harry and Meghan stepped back from their royal duties in 2020.

Sources close to Harry indicated that a major point of contention remains his security arrangements. Since leaving royal life, Harry has repeatedly sought to secure private protection for his family, particularly his wife Meghan and their children, Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet.

King Charles III arrives at Faleolo International Airport for his official welcome on October 23, 2024 in Apia, Samoa. The King's visit to Australia is his first as monarch, and the Commonwealth Heads of Government Meeting (CHOGM) in Samoa will be his first as head of the Commonwealth. (Photo by Chris Jackson/Getty Images)
King Charles III arrives at Faleolo International Airport for his official welcome on October 23, 2024, in Apia, Samoa (Chris Jackson/Getty Images)

Despite his efforts, communication between Harry and his father has reportedly deteriorated, with Harry's calls and letters going unanswered. “He gets ‘unavailable right now',” a friend of Harry’s shared. “His calls go unanswered. He has tried to reach out about the King’s health, but those calls go unanswered too.”

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s strained relationship with family over security concerns

A key issue behind the ongoing rift is Prince Harry’s belief that his father, King Charles, holds the power to reinstate his security. “Harry is frightened and feels the only person who can do anything about it is his father,” one royal source said.

Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex attend the 2022 Robert F. Kennedy Human Rights Ripple of Hope Gala at New York Hilton on December 06, 2022, in New York City. (Photo by Mike Coppola/Getty Images for 2022 Robert F. Kennedy Human Rights Ripple of Hope Gala)
Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex attend the 2022 Robert F Kennedy Human Rights Ripple of Hope Gala at New York Hilton on December 06, 2022, in New York City (Mike Coppola/Getty Images for 2022 Robert F Kennedy Human Rights Ripple of Hope Gala)

Despite this, a palace insider stressed that Harry’s security situation was not within the King’s control, dismissing the notion as “wholly incorrect.” Harry and Meghan's decision to step back from their roles as senior members of the royal family in early 2020 was partially motivated by their desire for a more private life, including the ability to hire armed private security in the US. A source familiar with their situation noted, “Working royal or not, this is the King’s son.”

Soon after Harry and Meghan announced their engagement in November 2017, the couple spent their first Christmas at Sandringham together which was a departure from tradition since unmarried partners had not previously been invited.

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle reflect on their first Christmas at Sandringham

In the couple’s 2022 Netflix docuseries, 'Harry & Meghan', the Duchess of Sussex recalled fond memories of that Christmas, particularly her interaction with Prince Philip, Harry’s late grandfather. Meghan described the experience as “amazing,” remembering how she felt welcomed into the royal fold.

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry were returning from an event when the alleged chase happened (Dominic Lipinski - Pool/Getty Images)
Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex attend a naming and unveiling ceremony for the new Royal Flying Doctor Service aircraft at Dubbo Airport on October 17, 2018, in Dubbo, Australia (Dominic Lipinski - Pool/Getty Images)

"It’s just like a big family like I always wanted,” she shared.

The following year, Harry and Meghan again spent Christmas with the royal family at Sandringham, but in 2019, they chose to spend the holidays privately in Canada.

While Harry and Meghan have not returned to Sandringham since their step back from royal life, a friend of Harry’s revealed that nothing “would give [him] more happiness than being able to rekindle his bond with his father.” 

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