Hilaria Baldwin reveals she was 'ready' to divorce Alec after hitting rough patch: 'We fought a lot'

Hilaria Baldwin reveals she was 'ready' to divorce Alec after hitting rough patch: 'We fought a lot'
Hilaria Baldwin opened up about her and Alec Baldwin's marital struggles in her new memoir, 'Manual Not Included' (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Hilaria Baldwin is opening up about the rough patches in her marriage to actor Alec Baldwin.

In her forthcoming memoir 'Manual Not Included', the 41-year-old shares how their relationship nearly ended at one point.

Hilaria Baldwin reveals she and Alec Baldwin 'fought a lot' during rocky patch in marriage

In the book, Hilaria Baldwin revealed that she and Alec Baldwin hit a rough patch before and after the birth of their second child, Rafael, in June 2015.

Alec Baldwin and Hilaria Baldwin attend day one of the 2024 US Open Tennis Championships at the USTA Billie Jean King Tennis Center on August 26, 2024 in Flushing Meadows, Queens, New York City. (Photo by Jean Catuffe/GC Images)
Alec Baldwin and Hilaria Baldwin attend day one of the 2024 US Open Tennis Championships at the USTA Billie Jean King Tennis Center on August 26, 2024, in Flushing Meadows, Queens, New York City (Jean Catuffe/GC Images)

During that time, Alec frequently traveled for work, leaving her alone in New York with their infant daughter Carmen and their dogs.

She wrote, "We fought a lot," and recalled being frustrated when Alec took work calls and answered emails during her labor.

"It really pissed me off, and I didn't hesitate to tell him so," Hilaria shared in the memoir.

Hilaria Baldwin felt 'disrespected' after Alec Baldwin returned to work immediately after Rafael's birth

After Rafael’s premature birth, Alec Baldwin returned to work immediately, which left Hilaria "fuming" and feeling "disrespected," Page Six reported

"That year was probably the rockiest for us, and not just in terms of juggling a baby and a toddler," she wrote.

NEW YORK, NEW YORK - FEBRUARY 08: Hilaria Baldwin poses backstage for Badgley Mischka during New Yor
Hilaria Baldwin attends the Badgley Mischka front row during New York Fashion Week: The Shows at Gallery I at Spring Studios on February 8, 2020, in New York City (Astrid Stawiarz/Getty Images for Badgley Mischka)  

"I was so focused on how I thought things should be, and Alec was so set in his ways. Neither one of us would budge," the 41-year-old added. 

"I took my rings off as a sign that I was potentially ready to walk," she admitted. 

Despite the conflict, the couple stayed together and later welcomed five more children. In 2017, they renewed their vows for their fifth wedding anniversary.

Actor Alec Baldwin and his wife Hilaria Baldwin and their children (L-R) Ilaria Baldwin, Eduardo Baldwin, Leonardo Baldwin, Maria Lucia Baldwin, Romeo Baldwin, Rafael Baldwin and Carmen Baldwin attend the Chairman's Reception at the 2023 Hamptons International Film Festival on October 07, 2023 in East Hampton, New York. (Photo by Sonia Moskowitz/Getty Images)
Alec Baldwin and Hilaria Baldwin and their children (L-R) Ilaria Baldwin, Eduardo Baldwin, Leonardo Baldwin, Maria Lucia Baldwin, Romeo Baldwin, Rafael Baldwin, and Carmen Baldwin attend the Chairman's Reception at the 2023 Hamptons International Film Festival on October 07, 2023, in East Hampton, New York (Sonia Moskowitz/Getty Images)

Alec Baldwin recalls prenup talk with Hilaria Baldwin

The couple, who tied the knot in 2012, previously reflected on another early challenge in their marriage during the premiere of their reality show 'The Baldwins'.

Alec shared that he brought up a prenuptial agreement because of his experience with his first marriage to Kim Basinger.

“After my first marriage, I said, ‘Let’s have a prenup,’” the 'It's Complicated' actor said during a sit-down interview. “She wasn’t happy about it.”



 

Hilaria admitted the conversation was “awkward” for her, before adding, “But I don’t actually quite understand what a prenup is. Because you’re like, ‘After a certain number of kids, it’s this.’” per The Sun.

“I was like, ‘You know what? I’ll just sign it,’” she recalled. “Which was probably very stupid of me back then.”

She also noted that if faced with the same decision now, “I would read it again.” Ultimately, the couple decided not to go forward with a prenup.

EAST HAMPTON, NEW YORK - JULY 20: Alec Baldwin and Hilaria Baldwin attend a HamptonsFilm SummerDocs screening of
Alec Baldwin and Hilaria Baldwin attend a HamptonsFilm SummerDocs screening of "War Game" at the Regal UA East Hampton on July 20, 2024, in East Hampton, New York (Sonia Moskowitz/Getty Images)

In the memoir, Hilaria also touched on the controversy surrounding her background and accent. She referred to the backlash as a “devastating reality.”

She also discussed how she and Alec handled the tragic aftermath of the 'Rust' shooting, although details from that section were not disclosed in the preview.

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