Jennifer Garner distances herself to avoid being ‘dragged’ into Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's problems

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner maintain a close relationship despite their divorce in 2015
UPDATED DEC 14, 2024
Jennifer Garner grew uncomfortable with Jennifer Lopez's behavior following split from Ben Affleck (Getty Images)
Jennifer Garner grew uncomfortable with Jennifer Lopez's behavior following split from Ben Affleck (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Jennifer Garner is distancing herself from the ongoing issues between her ex-husband Ben Affleck and his estranged wife Jennifer Lopez.

According to sources, the '13 Going on 30' actress has decided to cut off contact with Lopez as the couple navigates their dramatic split, reported OK! Magazine.

Jennifer Garner urges Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez to seek counseling

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck attend Amazon Studios' World Premiere Of
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck attend Amazon Studios' world premiere of 'AIR' at Regency Village Theatre on March 27, 2023, in Los Angeles, California (Getty Images)

Speaking about Jennifer Garner's role, a source shared, “Jennifer tried not to take sides."

“She urged them to seek counseling and try harder to fix things,” the insider added, according to Star.

However, Garner reportedly grew uncomfortable with Lopez’s behavior, feeling manipulated and "dragged" into "Ben and JLo’s problems."

Lopez’s decision to file for divorce was reportedly influenced by a lack of commitment from Affleck to work on their marriage.

Despite the end of their marriage, Lopez continues to focus on her career, with a new film set to release soon.

Jennifer Garner’s changing role in Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's family dynamics

HOLLYWOOD, CA - FEBRUARY 24:  Actress Jennifer Garner and actor-director Ben Affleck arrive at the O
Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck arrive at the Oscars at Hollywood & Highland Center on February 24, 2013 in Hollywood, California (Getty Images)

Initially, Jennifer Garner encouraged her three children, Violet, 19, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12, to maintain a relationship with their stepmother.

But as tensions escalated, she decided to step back.

“It was an uncomfortable position to be in. JLo appealed to Jen’s gentle nature, and she’s such a nice person that she couldn’t say no," said the insider.

"But Jen just thinks it’s better to keep her distance from JLo during the divorce,” they added.

Ben Affleck leaning on Jennifer Garner

Following Jennifer Lopez’s divorce filing in August 2024, Ben Affleck has relied heavily on Jennifer Garner for support.

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck are seen on June 11, 2024, in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Bellocqimages/Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)
Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck are seen on June 11, 2024, in Los Angeles, California (Bellocqimages/Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)

The 51-year-old actor even spent Thanksgiving with Garner and their children as he adjusts to the split.

“He’s got his own place, but he’s still at her house all the time for family dinners,” a source shared.

“She never fails to send him home with a care package of food and even reminds him to take care of his health, like seeing the doctor and taking vitamins,” the insider added.

Garner continues to be a grounding presence for Affleck as the source noted, “She’s very concerned about his well-being."

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner's unique bond

WEST HOLLYWOOD, CA - MARCH 02:  Actors Ben Affleck (L) and Jennifer Garner attend the 2014 Vanity Fa
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner attend the 2014 Vanity Fair Oscar Party hosted by Graydon Carter on March 2, 2014 in West Hollywood, California (Getty Images)

Despite their divorce in 2015 after a decade of marriage, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner maintain a close relationship rooted in shared history and co-parenting.

“He loves being looked after by her,” a separate insider explained.

“Even though they’ve been split for a while now, Ben feels a certain level of comfort with Jen. He can just be himself around her,” they shared.

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