Meghan Markle ‘wears the pants’ in marriage to Prince Harry as he loves ‘being told what to do’, says pal

Meghan Markle ‘wears the pants’ in marriage to Prince Harry as he loves ‘being told what to do’, says pal
Prince Harry's friend said Meghan Markle is just what the Duke of Sussex always wanted in his partner (Matt Dunham - WPA Pool/Getty Images)

MONTECITO, CALIFORNIA: Prince Harry's transition from royal duties to civilian life has often been under the spotlight, with many blaming Meghan Markle for his much-criticized move to California.

However, according to Harry's friend who was with him at the Royal Military Academy Sandhurst, Meghan might be exactly what the Duke of Sussex had sought in a partner. The source claimed Meghan "wears the pants" in the marriage while Harry "loves being told what to do".

BOGOTA, COLOMBIA - AUGUST 15: Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex seen during The Duke and Duchess of Sussex's Colombia Visit on August 15, 2024 in Bogota, Colombia. (Photo by Eric Charbonneau/Archewell Foundation via Getty Images)
Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex, and Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex, seen during their Colombia visit on August 15, 2024 in Bogota, Colombia (Eric Charbonneau/Archewell Foundation via Getty Images)

Prince Harry loves 'being told what to do'

“He loved being ordered about and told what to do,” the friend said, per OK Magazine.

“He was quite good at being in the military and really liked it. He especially liked being told what to do.”

Prince Harry's time at Sandhurst, where he trained to become an officer in the British Army, revealed more about his personality.

“He was a good guy actually. We all liked him. It was funny though — he did like to be the center of attention. If he wasn’t getting enough he would do something ‘wacky’ to get it until all eyes were back on him,” the source added.

Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex visit Lightway Academy on May 10, 2024 in Abuja, Nigeria. (Photo by Andrew Esiebo/Getty Images for The Archewell Foundation)
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle visit Lightway Academy on May 10, 2024 in Abuja, Nigeria (Andrew Esiebo/Getty Images for The Archewell Foundation)

While Prince Harry thrived in the structured environment of the military, his life in California paints a different picture.

Settling into Markle's home state, the couple has received both praise and criticism for carving out their path.

“It’s sad he’s no longer talking to his family — but I can’t say I’m surprised," the friend reflected.

"Again, he liked a firm hand and he found Meghan. She’s clearly wearing the pants in the family and is the driving force so, really, she’s perfect for him.”

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s rumored professional split

Meanwhile, the Sussexes’ professional life has been under scrutiny of late.

Royal biographer Angela Levin discussed rumors of a potential professional split between Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, questioning their dynamics.

"All of the conversations were very negative, he was very sad about a lot of things, saying we've got to change the world, but actually what he means, I think, is that he wants to change his own world," Levin reportedly told GB News.

She speculated further, suggesting that Markle might be pulling away from Prince Harry professionally.

BOGOTA, COLOMBIA - AUGUST 15: Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex are seen at Centro Nacional de las Artes Delia Zapata during The Duke and Duchess of Sussex's Colombia Visit on August 15, 2024 in Bogota, Colombia. (Photo by Eric Charbonneau/Archewell Foundation via Getty Images)
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry are seen at Centro Nacional de las Artes Delia Zapata during their Colombia visit on August 15, 2024 in Bogota, Colombia (Eric Charbonneau/Archewell Foundation via Getty Images)

“So you have to work out why has this happened — was Meghan fed up with him to get rid of him for ten days? Are they really just going to divide their work? What actually is the reason?”

Levin went on to claim, "My own feeling is that this is the beginning of the end. Because once she finds that she's okay on her own, then she's satisfied."

"As we've seen throughout her life, she drops people when she no longer needs them, and I think that will be what happens around the corner."

The Sussexes’ strained relationship with Donald Trump

On the professional front, despite attempts to establish themselves in Hollywood, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle have faced challenges, with some critics labeling their efforts as "flop".

Additionally, royal historian Richard Fitzwilliams weighed in on the tension between the Sussexes and Donald Trump, telling GB News, "There's no doubt that this is a pretty toxic issue, but I can't see that the future administration would want to be involved in problems with the British royal family, which obviously would occur if this happened."

Fitzwilliams highlighted the strained relationship, adding, "The Sussexes and Donald Trump do not see eye to eye. He has called Meghan nasty, she called him misogynistic and divisive."

DETROIT, MICHIGAN - OCTOBER 10: Republican presidential nominee, former U.S. President Donald Trump, speaks at the Detroit Economic Club on October 10, 2024 in Detroit, Michigan. Michigan is considered a key battleground state in the upcoming presidential election, holding 15 electoral votes. (Photo by Bill Pugliano/Getty Images)
Donald Trump speaks at the Detroit Economic Club on October 10, 2024 in Detroit, Michigan (Bill Pugliano/Getty Images)

Harry appears to be shifting his focus toward philanthropy.

“What Harry seems to be doing is focusing on philanthropy,” royal editor Richard Eden observed.

“His most successful projects, the ones that resonate the most with people are the ones that were set up when he was a working royal – so the Invictus Games, his patronage of WellChild for example.”



 

Prince Harry's recent appearances, such as his lively stint on 'The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon', showcased a glimpse of his old self.

"I think if he was very popular, he would be very positive with the way he talks about the charities. The thing that we saw that was very popular was when he was with Jimmy Fallon, taking on the haunted maze," Angela Levin said, referring to Prince Harry's appearance on the late-night talk show.

Levin reflected on Harry's joy during a haunted maze segment on the show, saying, “There we saw the original Harry. He was laughing, he was enjoying himself, he was as happy as can be. He's gone back to being a teenager and enjoying himself."

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