The First Ladies' Club: Here's what drives the friendship between Michelle Obama and Jill Biden

WASHINGTON, DC: Political insiders have observed a curious trend: Barack Obama is actively campaigning for Joe Biden's reelection, yet Michelle Obama remains conspicuously absent.

This has fueled speculation about a potential rift between the former first lady and the Biden family, especially Jill Biden. Sources close to the situation told Axios on June 27 that Michelle’s absence might be tied to her feelings over the treatment of her friend Kathleen Buhle, who went through a tumultuous divorce with Hunter Biden in 2017.

Michelle Obama's spokesperson clarified that she continues to be friends with the Bidens

However, Michelle has publicly refuted any notion of a fallout with Bidens over Buhle. "She is friends with Kathleen and with the Bidens. Two things can be true," clarified Michelle's spokesperson Crystal Carson to Axios.

The White House also pushed back against the rumors, emphasizing the deep bond between the two families. "The Biden and Obama families are like family to one other, and whoever made these claims about that relationship isn't familiar with it," stated Andrew Bates, a White House spokesperson.

While the relationship between Michelle and the Bidens remains under public scrutiny, it is clear that the former first lady generally avoids partisan politics. Instead, she focuses on nonpartisan initiatives, such as When We All Vote, a voter registration group she launched in 2018.

Moreover, even though some believe Michelle sided with Buhle during the divorce, there is little evidence to suggest this strained her relationship with Jill.

Bidens and Obamas have supported one another in times of need

A significant indicator of the strength of Michelle and Jill's friendship came when the former's mother, Marian Robinson, died on May 31. Jill attended the memorial service, demonstrating her unwavering support.

The event was confirmed by Chicago Sun-Times columnist Lynn Sweet, who noted Jill’s presence despite it not being on her schedule. This act of solidarity underlines the depth of their bond, which has been strong since 2008 when Obama announced Biden as his running mate.

Their friendship was immediate and has only grown over time. In a December 2016 joint interview with PEOPLE Magazine, Michelle described their connection as "automatic," and Jill echoed the sentiment, calling it "an instant bond."

The physical distance after the Obamas stayed in Washington, DC, and the Bidens returned to Delaware did not weaken their relationship. As Jill expressed, "We get together, and it's like that friend that you see a couple of years later and it's like you never — you know?"

Even amid the personal turmoil of Buhle’s divorce from the first son, Michelle publicly supported Jill. In May 2019, Michelle promoted Jill's book, 'Where the Light Enters: Building a Family, Discovering Myself', highlighting her admiration and respect.

"Through our work together to honor and support military families, I saw what an inspiration Jill Biden is to those around her," wrote Michelle on Instagram, urging her followers to read the book. 

Michelle Obama might join Joe Biden's reelection campaign in its final stages

Despite Michelle's current absence from President Biden's reelection campaign, insiders suggest this is more about her general reluctance to engage in partisan politics than any personal conflict.

The former first lady is expected to join the campaign later, potentially making a significant impact when undecided voters are most attentive, as per NBC News. President Biden reportedly views Michelle as a valuable asset whose popularity could be a game-changer in the final stages of the campaign.

Speculation about Michelle potentially running for office herself has been consistently quashed. In an interview with Oprah Winfrey for 'The Light We Carry' in 2023, Michelle reiterated her disinterest in a political career.

"I've never expressed any interest in politics. Ever," firmly stated Michelle, as per Rolling Stone.

While she may not be on the campaign trail, Michelle has made her concerns about the upcoming election clear.

During an appearance on Jay Shetty's 'On Purpose' podcast in January, she voiced her apprehensions, admitting, "What's gonna happen in this next election? I am terrified about what could possibly happen. Because our leaders matter. Who we select, who speaks for us, who holds that bully pulpit."